"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: 2 sets I approached today.

ElStud

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So today I approached 2 sets. Yeah... not much more to say. Here's how they went...

The First Approach
So I'm walking into the hallway and I go up to this Sam dude and I'm like "Damn dude, these chicks must be shy I've been sitting here for 10 minutes and they haven't talked to me". So while Sam is talking to this Kelly girl, I sort of AMOG him and the girl starts giving ME eye contact...

Me: Hey, you know what would be cool?
Kelly: What?
Me: You coming to this game on Friday.

Blah, blah, blah, we talk, I tell how I play tenor sax and stuff and her eyes are still on me. Eventually I close the set and say "What's your name anyway?" and she's like "Kelly" and I close the set and Sam dude's like "Ok... Mike" obviously wanting me to get out of the set.
Nothing amazing here. But is it me or is ****blocking other dudes AND getting the attention of the girl he was talking to, fun? I don't know, it is to me.

So there's this set of girls I wanted to talk to at lunch, but I didn't have the balls to go there and set down and eventually the bell rang. So while these girls are walking to class I open with "You know what would be badass, if you guys came to this game on Friday". Blah... tell them how they could cheer for me and eventually one of the girls gets particularly interested. Then as I'm walking, we hold eye contact and she justs starts to smile and say "You know, you've got a cute smile, hollywood probably wouldn't want you though because you've got a C smile not a U smile" and she sort of laughs, but I think she may of heard the line before because the set sort of ended after that. Then these two AMOG dudes come and put there arms around a few of the chicks I was talking to. Twas a pretty bad set.
Yeah, that set sucked.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hey man that line of C and U smile is a routine created from SYLE, read THE GAME there he wrote it.

its strange, you should ask her were she hear that: She was picking up you lol :)
 

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JEFE said:
hey man that line of C and U smile is a routine created from SYLE, read THE GAME there he wrote it.

its strange, you should ask her were she hear that: She was picking up you lol :)
She didn't actually say she heard it, but she reacted to it like that. Maybe I'm just overanalyzing a small thing.
 

smooth guy

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Drop this "coming to the game" crap. A girl isn't interested in "cheering" on a guy she doesn't even know.
If you're gonna number close or anything find a different spot for a "date."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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