Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: 2 sets I approached today.

ElStud

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So today I approached 2 sets. Yeah... not much more to say. Here's how they went...

The First Approach
So I'm walking into the hallway and I go up to this Sam dude and I'm like "Damn dude, these chicks must be shy I've been sitting here for 10 minutes and they haven't talked to me". So while Sam is talking to this Kelly girl, I sort of AMOG him and the girl starts giving ME eye contact...

Me: Hey, you know what would be cool?
Kelly: What?
Me: You coming to this game on Friday.

Blah, blah, blah, we talk, I tell how I play tenor sax and stuff and her eyes are still on me. Eventually I close the set and say "What's your name anyway?" and she's like "Kelly" and I close the set and Sam dude's like "Ok... Mike" obviously wanting me to get out of the set.
Nothing amazing here. But is it me or is ****blocking other dudes AND getting the attention of the girl he was talking to, fun? I don't know, it is to me.

So there's this set of girls I wanted to talk to at lunch, but I didn't have the balls to go there and set down and eventually the bell rang. So while these girls are walking to class I open with "You know what would be badass, if you guys came to this game on Friday". Blah... tell them how they could cheer for me and eventually one of the girls gets particularly interested. Then as I'm walking, we hold eye contact and she justs starts to smile and say "You know, you've got a cute smile, hollywood probably wouldn't want you though because you've got a C smile not a U smile" and she sort of laughs, but I think she may of heard the line before because the set sort of ended after that. Then these two AMOG dudes come and put there arms around a few of the chicks I was talking to. Twas a pretty bad set.
Yeah, that set sucked.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey man that line of C and U smile is a routine created from SYLE, read THE GAME there he wrote it.

its strange, you should ask her were she hear that: She was picking up you lol :)
 

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JEFE said:
hey man that line of C and U smile is a routine created from SYLE, read THE GAME there he wrote it.

its strange, you should ask her were she hear that: She was picking up you lol :)
She didn't actually say she heard it, but she reacted to it like that. Maybe I'm just overanalyzing a small thing.
 

smooth guy

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Drop this "coming to the game" crap. A girl isn't interested in "cheering" on a guy she doesn't even know.
If you're gonna number close or anything find a different spot for a "date."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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