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[flowtheory]

randomly found this on my Facebook feed thanks to advertising; figured it would be worth sharing as it is congruent with what we talk about here.

Book/Website: https://thewisdomhut.com/

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*please note: this is sharing of information and I am not selling anyone here anything*

 

[Roober]

I do agree on the part about focusing on your purpose, but I dont necessarily agree on the part that you cant do it in a relationship.

What you need is a woman that supports your purpose. But you also need the strength to push towards your goals if she becomes defiant or difficult. You must know when it is time to cut your losses when it interferes with your purpose.

Also agree with chasing lots of women, in that it is a huge distraction from your purpose. It's why I dont understand having more than 2-3 plates at a time, at that point it becomes a huge distraction to your purpose.

This is also practically a repeat of David Deida's stuff, not really original at all.

 

[ohrein]

Disagree with this as well. I don't ever stop working on myself so by his logic I can't ever date. There's no finish line to self improvement or dating. In fact, if you're in a relationship it's even more important to keep improving. If you find a hotty who improves your life, you want to be even higher in SMV if it ends so you can move up again. Plus self improvement is super attractive to women. Drop the word ambition around women when you're discussing relationships and watch their eyes light up. They love it.

I agree you need a purpose, a goal and a plan, and you shouldn't let women interfere with these, but that doesn't mean you can't have both at the same time.

 

[RickTheToad]

Damn. It's like everyone and their mother are "authors" now. On what authority does he have to write or make a statement like this? In reality, we're all alone first, so his video is a bit pointless.

 

[flowtheory]

Thanks for the input. Wasn’t sure what to think of it. I like where the heads are at here. He had some good points though