"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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randomly found this on my Facebook feed thanks to advertising; figured it would be worth sharing as it is congruent with what we talk about here.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I do agree on the part about focusing on your purpose, but I dont necessarily agree on the part that you cant do it in a relationship.

What you need is a woman that supports your purpose. But you also need the strength to push towards your goals if she becomes defiant or difficult. You must know when it is time to cut your losses when it interferes with your purpose.

Also agree with chasing lots of women, in that it is a huge distraction from your purpose. It's why I dont understand having more than 2-3 plates at a time, at that point it becomes a huge distraction to your purpose.

This is also practically a repeat of David Deida's stuff, not really original at all.
 

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Disagree with this as well. I don't ever stop working on myself so by his logic I can't ever date. There's no finish line to self improvement or dating. In fact, if you're in a relationship it's even more important to keep improving. If you find a hotty who improves your life, you want to be even higher in SMV if it ends so you can move up again. Plus self improvement is super attractive to women. Drop the word ambition around women when you're discussing relationships and watch their eyes light up. They love it.

I agree you need a purpose, a goal and a plan, and you shouldn't let women interfere with these, but that doesn't mean you can't have both at the same time.
 

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Damn. It's like everyone and their mother are "authors" now. On what authority does he have to write or make a statement like this? In reality, we're all alone first, so his video is a bit pointless.
 

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Thanks for the input. Wasn’t sure what to think of it. I like where the heads are at here. He had some good points though
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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