"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Found the one who slipped away on FaceBook, but im in a LTR

gimmeyofonenumba

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Well long story short, ever since joining this site i had only afc/oneitis for one girl, we never even dated or kissed, she was very shy and quiet at the time. We both liked the other, she moved soon after we met. 5 years have gone by now, I'm in a LTR. I found her on facebook, she looks to be single, but man did she breakout of her shell(lots of skanky type AW pics). My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up. My question is, would I be a scumbag for messaging this oneitis on facebook? How should i approach this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The dj mentality is loosely based on being a scumbag...Get rid of that conscience and collect more broads
 

Kailex

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up.
Forget the Facebook situation... why are you in a relationship that is blatantly talking about breaking up?

Once it's been mentioned... it's over.
This isn't a car purchase you are talking about, or moving on, or a vacation... you've talked about breaking up but keep going?

How's that working out?

I think you need to get your LTR situation resolved first. And by resolved, I mean finished.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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we've talked about breaking up just recently, because we've been fighting quite a bit, things have been going really great recently. What I'm asking, is it wrong of me to contact this girl?
 
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