“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Found the one who slipped away on FaceBook, but im in a LTR

gimmeyofonenumba

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Well long story short, ever since joining this site i had only afc/oneitis for one girl, we never even dated or kissed, she was very shy and quiet at the time. We both liked the other, she moved soon after we met. 5 years have gone by now, I'm in a LTR. I found her on facebook, she looks to be single, but man did she breakout of her shell(lots of skanky type AW pics). My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up. My question is, would I be a scumbag for messaging this oneitis on facebook? How should i approach this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MyTeamSupreme

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The dj mentality is loosely based on being a scumbag...Get rid of that conscience and collect more broads
 

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up.
Forget the Facebook situation... why are you in a relationship that is blatantly talking about breaking up?

Once it's been mentioned... it's over.
This isn't a car purchase you are talking about, or moving on, or a vacation... you've talked about breaking up but keep going?

How's that working out?

I think you need to get your LTR situation resolved first. And by resolved, I mean finished.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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we've talked about breaking up just recently, because we've been fighting quite a bit, things have been going really great recently. What I'm asking, is it wrong of me to contact this girl?
 
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