"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Found the one who slipped away on FaceBook, but im in a LTR

G

gimmeyofonenumba

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
520
Reaction score
2
Location
GA
Well long story short, ever since joining this site i had only afc/oneitis for one girl, we never even dated or kissed, she was very shy and quiet at the time. We both liked the other, she moved soon after we met. 5 years have gone by now, I'm in a LTR. I found her on facebook, she looks to be single, but man did she breakout of her shell(lots of skanky type AW pics). My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up. My question is, would I be a scumbag for messaging this oneitis on facebook? How should i approach this?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

M

MyTeamSupreme

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 25, 2009
Messages
113
Reaction score
3
The dj mentality is loosely based on being a scumbag...Get rid of that conscience and collect more broads
 
Kailex

Kailex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2010
Messages
2,072
Reaction score
190
Location
New Jersey
gimmeyofonenumba said:
My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up.
Click to expand...
Forget the Facebook situation... why are you in a relationship that is blatantly talking about breaking up?

Once it's been mentioned... it's over.
This isn't a car purchase you are talking about, or moving on, or a vacation... you've talked about breaking up but keep going?

How's that working out?

I think you need to get your LTR situation resolved first. And by resolved, I mean finished.
 
G

gimmeyofonenumba

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
520
Reaction score
2
Location
GA
we've talked about breaking up just recently, because we've been fighting quite a bit, things have been going really great recently. What I'm asking, is it wrong of me to contact this girl?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top