"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Found the one who slipped away on FaceBook, but im in a LTR

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Well long story short, ever since joining this site i had only afc/oneitis for one girl, we never even dated or kissed, she was very shy and quiet at the time. We both liked the other, she moved soon after we met. 5 years have gone by now, I'm in a LTR. I found her on facebook, she looks to be single, but man did she breakout of her shell(lots of skanky type AW pics). My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up. My question is, would I be a scumbag for messaging this oneitis on facebook? How should i approach this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The dj mentality is loosely based on being a scumbag...Get rid of that conscience and collect more broads
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
My LTR and myself have been dating for 2 yrs, but we've been on a very rocky road lately, she does anything and everything for me, but the attraction is fading, and we've been talking about breaking up.
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Forget the Facebook situation... why are you in a relationship that is blatantly talking about breaking up?

Once it's been mentioned... it's over.
This isn't a car purchase you are talking about, or moving on, or a vacation... you've talked about breaking up but keep going?

How's that working out?

I think you need to get your LTR situation resolved first. And by resolved, I mean finished.
 
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we've talked about breaking up just recently, because we've been fighting quite a bit, things have been going really great recently. What I'm asking, is it wrong of me to contact this girl?
 
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