"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You only met her 3 days before she went to Jamaica? Unless you became exclusive within those 3 days you really don't have any right to be mad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by ego
Is there some strange sarcasm behind this or are you really being serious? Who really cares about some nude pictures?

And for you who are looking for porno: Go out in the real world and you'll hopefully, one day, find some real tits and *****.
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Were not looking for porn!!!! We trying to help this guy out, but we first to see what she did for reference!
 
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What do you expect?

Why are you dudes to desperate to see some pics of some girls that you can just go to the mall to see?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You guys were so had

Couldn't you tell this guy was playing you? He fed into three things:

1. the fact that you're on this site gave him the impression that EVERYONE on this site is a LOSER who can't get women. I can't speak for anyone else but I know that false impression pisses me off. Thank you for bringing down the quality and integrity of sosuave by begging the troll for pics. :kick:

2. he knows this site brings in guys from all over the world which means different races, too. He was hoping to ignite racial tensions by hitting it where he was hoping many of the posters here would feel it: insecurity about their masculinity brought to the surface by images of a black guy having sex with a white gal. And a couple of you bought right into that with your reponses to the thread. Again, great job

3. he was counting on you to beg for pics so he could overload your inboxes with porno SPAM. You might have even downloaded viruses to your computers. :rolleyes:

Trolls play on the feelings/insecurities of the members of forum groups. They do it when they don't like what a given site stands for. Be don juans and don't fall for troll bait.
 
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This email posting frenzy is fuccking hilarious
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Host them on tinypic.com and post them here or pm them to me. I don't want to miss out on the party!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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