"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You only met her 3 days before she went to Jamaica? Unless you became exclusive within those 3 days you really don't have any right to be mad.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by ego
Is there some strange sarcasm behind this or are you really being serious? Who really cares about some nude pictures?

And for you who are looking for porno: Go out in the real world and you'll hopefully, one day, find some real tits and *****.
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Were not looking for porn!!!! We trying to help this guy out, but we first to see what she did for reference!
 
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What do you expect?

Why are you dudes to desperate to see some pics of some girls that you can just go to the mall to see?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You guys were so had

Couldn't you tell this guy was playing you? He fed into three things:

1. the fact that you're on this site gave him the impression that EVERYONE on this site is a LOSER who can't get women. I can't speak for anyone else but I know that false impression pisses me off. Thank you for bringing down the quality and integrity of sosuave by begging the troll for pics. :kick:

2. he knows this site brings in guys from all over the world which means different races, too. He was hoping to ignite racial tensions by hitting it where he was hoping many of the posters here would feel it: insecurity about their masculinity brought to the surface by images of a black guy having sex with a white gal. And a couple of you bought right into that with your reponses to the thread. Again, great job

3. he was counting on you to beg for pics so he could overload your inboxes with porno SPAM. You might have even downloaded viruses to your computers. :rolleyes:

Trolls play on the feelings/insecurities of the members of forum groups. They do it when they don't like what a given site stands for. Be don juans and don't fall for troll bait.
 
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This email posting frenzy is fuccking hilarious
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Host them on tinypic.com and post them here or pm them to me. I don't want to miss out on the party!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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