Le killeur
Don Juan
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I think this is actually a regular occurence and a regular reason women flake. In any case delete the b*tches number, no time for damn lyers, shes not worth you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
This. I'd love to see the expression on her face if he did this. Doubly so if he brought a bombshell with him.Johnnyventana said:"Accidentally" show up at said location with hotter chick.
In any case, she clearly is happier seeing her girlfriends, than you. How happy does that make you? Next.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Good point...the only counterargument could be people don't help other people get women.Iceberg said:This stuff with women...it's a hobby. Not a career. This is the fun stuff you focus on that gets your mind off the REAL sh*t in your life. In fact, that's where guys screw up - they treat these girls like there's some real outcome invested in it.