Le killeur
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I think this is actually a regular occurence and a regular reason women flake. In any case delete the b*tches number, no time for damn lyers, shes not worth you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Found out reason for a flake
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
she ditched out on you yeah, but she did it in a way to kind of like help spare your pride. then she tried to reschedule.
you guys arent bf/gf yet so this kind of stuff is gonna happen. don't take it too hard, and just go out with her next week. if she flakes again, call that **** off.
firm believer in two strike rule
you guys arent bf/gf yet so this kind of stuff is gonna happen. don't take it too hard, and just go out with her next week. if she flakes again, call that **** off.
firm believer in two strike rule
Poonani Maker
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I had a young (well 27 yr old) petite (actually too short for me but I had no other women as good as her responsive to me early in the week this week) flake on my as5 last night (after a long grueling day at work - I was actually quite relieved that she flaked, didn't really feel like seeing her forgetful, lying as5 last night). We'd set up this date on Monday. I'm telling you guys, it's 30% that you will be able to see, come through for you and honor her word. These b!tches forever think "I don't owe anything to you!" (you're just another dude, I don't give a sh!t about you, I've got 100 others hitting me up/"blowing up my iphone," Why do you always see me looking down at my pretty little handheld device *smiling* and giggling and this influx of messages?, I get off, I don't even have to call/text you to cancel our date, I don't have to do nothing, cause I've got Many, many other dudes waiting on me hand and foot).
Ok, well, she flaked me. Well, I'll never call her as5 again, And I'll never answer any attempt from her to get back with me. As she becomes 28, 29, 30, and 31 yrs old, she'll be getting less and less opportunities to get with a guy like me, the less and less opportunities to use her ***** power cause her face (what we guys like to look at while fvckin her) will grow dranoier and groverier rugged slack, thus making her iphone compete with crickets in the noises it makes that makes her jump with glee.
So, for tonight I have another gal I'd met through another who I haven't fvcked and probably never will, cause she's just, well, taken. Both young. Her friend has an ok body not super thin like I like, and her face is ok not homely just normal not blazing hot, but she's young and I aim to fvck her tonight. She could be long term material cause she's kinda quiet or womanly (can't stand loud-mouthed or chatty women). Her girlfriend will be with us but I'll be able to get her away for a while at their apartment when we go back there. Would be soooo sweet to bang both tonight. Don't know what I can pull off, especially if her boyfriend is with her (99% chance he will be
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Ok, well, she flaked me. Well, I'll never call her as5 again, And I'll never answer any attempt from her to get back with me. As she becomes 28, 29, 30, and 31 yrs old, she'll be getting less and less opportunities to get with a guy like me, the less and less opportunities to use her ***** power cause her face (what we guys like to look at while fvckin her) will grow dranoier and groverier rugged slack, thus making her iphone compete with crickets in the noises it makes that makes her jump with glee.
So, for tonight I have another gal I'd met through another who I haven't fvcked and probably never will, cause she's just, well, taken. Both young. Her friend has an ok body not super thin like I like, and her face is ok not homely just normal not blazing hot, but she's young and I aim to fvck her tonight. She could be long term material cause she's kinda quiet or womanly (can't stand loud-mouthed or chatty women). Her girlfriend will be with us but I'll be able to get her away for a while at their apartment when we go back there. Would be soooo sweet to bang both tonight. Don't know what I can pull off, especially if her boyfriend is with her (99% chance he will be
)."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good point...the only counterargument could be people don't help other people get women.Iceberg said:
To get your mind off the stuff life throws out you, friends help you by listening, drinking, watching sports, etc. But they never help you with women. Some best friends even sabotage you..so you are left thinking they have value and there has to be an outcome when you invest in them.