Le killeur
Don Juan
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- Jan 21, 2012
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I think this is actually a regular occurence and a regular reason women flake. In any case delete the b*tches number, no time for damn lyers, shes not worth you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This. I'd love to see the expression on her face if he did this. Doubly so if he brought a bombshell with him.Johnnyventana said:"Accidentally" show up at said location with hotter chick.
In any case, she clearly is happier seeing her girlfriends, than you. How happy does that make you? Next.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Good point...the only counterargument could be people don't help other people get women.Iceberg said:This stuff with women...it's a hobby. Not a career. This is the fun stuff you focus on that gets your mind off the REAL sh*t in your life. In fact, that's where guys screw up - they treat these girls like there's some real outcome invested in it.