"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
single 20 y/o mom weighing 200 lbs. unemployed and looking for an "intamate discreet relationship" (probly still legally married), 3 kids born 1 year apart, all three look different ethnicities.
and she says she's "very family oriented".
What a keeper.
and she says she's "very family oriented".
What a keeper.
are you kidding me? my girl beats your girl! my dream girl has everything your girl has plus a kick ass attitude! You can't beat this anywhere!
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member5338861.htm#in
http://www.plentyoffish.com/member5338861.htm#in
Hey hey don't make fun of lumpz.Mr. Wolf said:
she is keeping it real when she writes: "I dont have time for games....like some guys like to play...sh*t talkers...u feel me....waist of my time."
Don't be talking sh*t about lumpy you feeling me??!! otherwise you be "waisting" her time!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Reminds me of a white "Shaniqua" from the movie "Dont be a menace...while drinking your juice in the hood" with the Wayans brothers, but Shaniqua was a little more classy....lol. Every n!gga in the hoods been in that. Shes a welfare grubbin lazy white trash wh0re.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
she's ****ing briliant. There are tons of Goverment help outhere, and she is taking full advantage of it, while I'm busting my ass 55 hours a week (and paying **** load in taxes) just to barly make it.Ken785 said:
spider_007 said:
Oh that's how you spell it!! I avoided writing that word because I didn't know how to spell it. I know how it sounds and how to use it, but spelling it is a different story.. It was always bearly.. Ok..
What you need to do brother is get a rich lady, and let her support you. Aim for the stars when you're on plenty of fish dot com.. How did you find that white trash?
I really don't get men who date single moms with kids. They are taking care of other dude's guy. She got knocked up and now you have clean up the mess by being the "Knight in Shining Armor." Barf... Guys who date single moms and pay for their kids have no balls. It's so funny how there's so many single moms are on that site waiting for someone rich to save them. Seriously don't get used by these *****s. :rockon:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
meitenesrigas
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Things are really bad for many guys in America/Britain. Just read the posts on here. Society in America/Britain has told men that they should only date those close to them in age and social status. Like many things in American/British culture it is probably best to do the exact opposite of what you are told to do by the media and culture.Nip/Tuck said:
In many cultures on this earth (as it was in America prior to the feminist and sexual revolutions) men want relationships with virgins. The idea of having a relationship with a mother is bordering on perverted for many on this planet.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
yes, he would "prolly" (god, what a gayass word, I swear) make more money if he learned how to spell.Mr. Wolf said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Someone got her pregnant in the first, second and third place. There are guys who will put sex ahead of all else. You've seen it in the forum.joekerr31 said:
Well they probably were decent when they were in their teenage years. Now that they're all used up and old. No sane man would ever date someone like that. Seriously don't be sympathetic, they did it to themselves. Many women in their 30s b*tch and complain that they put their careers ahead of getting married and finding the right man. It's their decision and now they're gonna live with it. :yes:Francisco d'Anconia said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Used up and old??!!! SHE'S FVCK'N 20!!! Alright, she's used up BUT SHE'S ONLY FVCK'N 20! And don't get me started on women in their 30's who put their careers first and now are trying to beat their biological clock. Those women are on a mission and they scare me... :nervous:Nip/Tuck said:
Wow she's 20! She looks like she's 30... since she has so much extra weight. Maybe if she fixed her diet and exercised she would look her age. I know women who're in their 30s are so driven to get married. I know a few of them think that the best time to get married is in their 40s... seriously don't they take biology in high school? They chances of having a child is SO low. These women who have unprotected sex when they're young and give birth should think with their brains.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Profession: Professional mommy. Being a mom is work enough.
Handing out food stamps at the local supermarket while juggling welfare and child support payments is apparently quite labor intensive. Just another ****ing deadbeat baby factory sucking up all of our tax dollars and making future criminals out of her bastard children in the process. That, ladies & gentlemen, is a load that should have been swallowed nearly two decades ago... God I love my country.
Handing out food stamps at the local supermarket while juggling welfare and child support payments is apparently quite labor intensive. Just another ****ing deadbeat baby factory sucking up all of our tax dollars and making future criminals out of her bastard children in the process. That, ladies & gentlemen, is a load that should have been swallowed nearly two decades ago... God I love my country.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
you edited the post before this huh?...lolAboleo said:
Ken785 said:
I'm an *******. Sue me.
The chick has three illigimite children, is "open" to having more by means of an 'Intimate Encounter' via the internet, and she is under 21 years of age... thats kinda' funny. :crackup: and very very sad...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.