You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hey hey don't make fun of lumpz.Mr. Wolf said:Ethnicity: "Caucasian with Mixed Color hair"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
she's ****ing briliant. There are tons of Goverment help outhere, and she is taking full advantage of it, while I'm busting my ass 55 hours a week (and paying **** load in taxes) just to barly make it.Ken785 said:Shes a welfare grubbin lazy white trash wh0re.
spider_007 said:barly
spider_007 said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Things are really bad for many guys in America/Britain. Just read the posts on here. Society in America/Britain has told men that they should only date those close to them in age and social status. Like many things in American/British culture it is probably best to do the exact opposite of what you are told to do by the media and culture.Nip/Tuck said:I really don't get men who date single moms with kids. They are taking care of other dude's guy. She got knocked up and now you have clean up the mess by being the "Knight in Shining Armor." Barf... Guys who date single moms and pay for their kids have no balls. It's so funny how there's so many single moms are on that site waiting for someone rich to save them. Seriously don't get used by these *****s. :rockon:
yes, he would "prolly" (god, what a gayass word, I swear) make more money if he learned how to spell.Mr. Wolf said:Oh that's how you spell it!! I avoided writing that word because I didn't know how to spell it. I know how it sounds and how to use it, but spelling it is a different story.. It was always bearly.. Ok..
What you need to do brother is get a rich lady, and let her support you. Aim for the stars when you're on plenty of fish dot com.. How did you find that white trash?
Someone got her pregnant in the first, second and third place. There are guys who will put sex ahead of all else. You've seen it in the forum.joekerr31 said:this stuff has got to be a joke. no man in the world would reply to that personal.
Well they probably were decent when they were in their teenage years. Now that they're all used up and old. No sane man would ever date someone like that. Seriously don't be sympathetic, they did it to themselves. Many women in their 30s b*tch and complain that they put their careers ahead of getting married and finding the right man. It's their decision and now they're gonna live with it. :yes:Francisco d'Anconia said:Someone got her pregnant in the first, second and third place. There are guys who will put sex ahead of all else. You've seen it in the forum.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Used up and old??!!! SHE'S FVCK'N 20!!! Alright, she's used up BUT SHE'S ONLY FVCK'N 20! And don't get me started on women in their 30's who put their careers first and now are trying to beat their biological clock. Those women are on a mission and they scare me... :nervous:Nip/Tuck said:Well they probably were decent when they were in their teenage years. Now that they're all used up and old. No sane man would ever date someone like that. Seriously don't be sympathetic, they did it to themselves. Many women in their 30s b*tch and complain that they put their careers ahead of getting married and finding the right man. It's their decision and now they're gonna live with it. :yes:
Wow she's 20! She looks like she's 30... since she has so much extra weight. Maybe if she fixed her diet and exercised she would look her age. I know women who're in their 30s are so driven to get married. I know a few of them think that the best time to get married is in their 40s... seriously don't they take biology in high school? They chances of having a child is SO low. These women who have unprotected sex when they're young and give birth should think with their brains.Francisco d'Anconia said:Used up and old??!!! SHE'S FVCK'N 20!!! Alright, she's used up BUT SHE'S ONLY FVCK'N 20! And don't get me started on women in their 30's who put their careers first and now are trying to beat their biological clock. Those women are on a mission and they scare me... :nervous:
you edited the post before this huh?...lolAboleo said:Profession: Professional mommy. Being a mom is work enough.
Handing out food stamps at the local supermarket while juggling welfare and child support payments is apparently quite labor intensive. Just another ****ing deadbeat baby factory sucking up all of our tax dollars and making future criminals out of her bastard children in the process. That, ladies & gentlemen, is a load that should have been swallowed nearly two decades ago... God I love my country.
Ken785 said:you edited the post before this huh?...lol
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.