"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flippinfreak

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It's been happening, I thought it was just the internet, or just heavy traffic, but it happens during slow periods, and on different internet connections and systems...

WHy are there 80+ items remaining to load for like 3 minutes at a time?

I don't know how long it takes for a cookie or whatever to time out, but after 3 minutes of nothing happening the page just stops loading.

When I post with quick reply, half the time it doesn't want to finish posting, the page loads forever, than quits half way through.

Waiting for a single page to open takes AGES, I open five pages and I have enough time to write an email to a friend, play two games of solitaire, freecell, do like 10 searches on the web, and it's STILL loading!!!

What the hell is happening?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flippinfreak

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bump

Is it something to do with cookies?
 

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yes it sucks. The gay color scheme sucks to. The advice on the front page sucks too.
 

BrotherAP

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Guys the color is easy to change.

First log-in (so your preferences get saved), then scroll down to the bottom of the page. On the bottom left there's a pull down menu, pick what you want. The blue look is "Default". There's others too.
 

flippinfreak

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I changed the colour the day the forums were back up...

The load times are btter now, but sometimes....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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flippinfreak

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flippinfreak

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bump and reported
 

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everything loads within 2-3 seconds for me. i have quite a fast broadband connection though.
 
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