"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Forum problem: Sosuave takes longer to load

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It's been happening, I thought it was just the internet, or just heavy traffic, but it happens during slow periods, and on different internet connections and systems...

WHy are there 80+ items remaining to load for like 3 minutes at a time?

I don't know how long it takes for a cookie or whatever to time out, but after 3 minutes of nothing happening the page just stops loading.

When I post with quick reply, half the time it doesn't want to finish posting, the page loads forever, than quits half way through.

Waiting for a single page to open takes AGES, I open five pages and I have enough time to write an email to a friend, play two games of solitaire, freecell, do like 10 searches on the web, and it's STILL loading!!!

What the hell is happening?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it something to do with cookies?
 
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yes it sucks. The gay color scheme sucks to. The advice on the front page sucks too.
 
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Guys the color is easy to change.

First log-in (so your preferences get saved), then scroll down to the bottom of the page. On the bottom left there's a pull down menu, pick what you want. The blue look is "Default". There's others too.
 
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I changed the colour the day the forums were back up...

The load times are btter now, but sometimes....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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everything loads within 2-3 seconds for me. i have quite a fast broadband connection though.
 
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