“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best option when it comes to getting/giving phone #'s

  • It is better to only give her your phone number

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • It is better to only get her phone number

    Votes: 24 88.9%

  • Total voters
    27

Derek Flint

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Please settle a debate.

Is it better to give out your phone number to a woman, or is it better to get her's?

Sorry, no option for both, as that wasn't part of the debate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It is a man's duty to get her's!!
 

azanon

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That's no debate; its an overwhelming consensus.

You get the girl's phone number. We don't wait by phones.
 

danielzxc

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I voted it is better to get her number. But giving your number CAN work. And in crowded or busy environments, or when the target is in a large group and you don't like opening large sets, giving your number is acceptable, imo.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr_knowit_all

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I thought we were going to settle the debate in person with our contest?

Having a bunch of keyboard jockeys vote in a stupid online poll is hilarious.

Such a big shyt talker, but can't back shyt up. When you grow those imaginary balls you talk so much about, come see me. Like I said, we'll see who pulls more chicks.
 

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Mr_knowit_all said:
I thought we were going to settle the debate in person with our contest?

Having a bunch of keyboard jockeys vote in a stupid online poll is hilarious.

Such a big shyt talker, but can't back shyt up. When you grow those imaginary balls you talk so much about, come see me. Like I said, we'll see who pulls more chicks.
You're down 16-2

Either everyone is wrong, or you are.

Yeah, I can travel in the Spring, and you can be embarrassed again.

What's the contest rules again? Who can give their phone number to the most women? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

Le Parisien

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We all know too well that hot girls don't call, at least at the initial getting to know eachother stage, simply because they are overwhelmed with options, and they don't know how (supposedly) great you are, yet... You are just another guy.

So it's our duty to take charge and call her.
 

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I think it's a matter of contact and who you are personally that makes the difference in which one you choose.

If I've met a girl and we've been talking for sometime and she seems interested in me then getting her number would be the optimum choice. She knows who I am, she willingly gave me her number so in that transaction, which probably took me at least 10 minutes but could be an hour for all I know, this is the natural and best conclusion I could come to.

Conversely, I'm reminded of a sketch done by Martin Lawrence about meeting a girl in a group of hot girls in a night club. He presented himself in a smooth and suave manner, politely introduced himself to the girl he was interested in, pardoning his interuption. Complemented her on her apearance in a good way and gave her his card which had his number on it. Closed and exited back to his buisness. Total time taken was less then 1 minute. From that prospective you could potentially meet a larger number of girls and meet with similar results if you so desired. It's the same principle I use as a promoter giving out free passes and building my guest list daily. I know not ALL of them are going to return my efforts but since I hit up so many I know at least a few are going to take the bait. If I had done things the other way I'd be looking at a short list and probobly make no money.

I say to each his own. It's a different approach but it's like choosing between a sniper rifle and a shotgun. They'll both do the job but in different ways.
 

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In the past I GAVE THEM MY NUMBER cause i always knew they would call and guess what, 95% of the time they called.

The other reason why I gave them my number is because I had so many numbers that it was impossible to find the time to call any of them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You take their number because I don't want to wait for her to call... to be busy when she calls to hang out and to give a heavy-balls required role to a girl who can not handle it.
 
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