Former Fat Chicks

[Uncharted]

Two girls that I'm dating play zero games and seem to not hide their affection for me at all. It turned out in both of these cases that they were former "fat" girls. Not obese just on the chunky side in high school and college. I'm guessing they weren't able to develop their game as much. They aren't female AFCs but they don't hide their interest.

It's almost a breath of fresh air when talking with these girls. I still treat them like all others but there is almost no bullsh!tting or sh!t testing. And they are in terrific shape (now) and even more self conscious about going to gym or what they eat or their weight. One girl weighs herself every day and if she gains a few pounds does a crazy workout for a week or two.

 

[Stort_Brød]

it happens more often than you realize. there are heaps of chicks that were chubby during high school that are now skinny and then there is also the opposite which is a lot of the skinny *popular* girls are now either fat or have kids and a saggy ass gut all because they were lil wh0res when they were young and had a teenage pregnancy hahaha.

plus i think the formerly fatties look way better because they get some muscle tone while losing the weight so they look a lot healthier and properly curved * especially if they do dem squats ooooh yeahhhh *

 

[Bible_Belt]

I agree that they have a much better attitude.

The real test of keeping weight off is doing it while in a long relationship.

 

[BrockLee74]

The real test of keeping weight off is doing it while in a long relationship.

Yeah, that is a huge test. Quite often they will lose weight to land a guy and balloon up once they feel like you will stick around. I got caught up in one of these deals. When it was at the end, she had chunked up quite a bit and tried to blame me for her gaining weight.

 

[Darth]

^^I basically broke up with a girl once who got chubby after she thought we were in a relationship.

The real nail in the coffin for me was that she literally lived directly behind a gym. She just couldn't motivate herself to go there. Instead she ate chocolate and rested easy in the fact that she thought she had secured somebody.

I still feel bad for her, but it was what it was.