"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Two girls that I'm dating play zero games and seem to not hide their affection for me at all. It turned out in both of these cases that they were former "fat" girls. Not obese just on the chunky side in high school and college. I'm guessing they weren't able to develop their game as much. They aren't female AFCs but they don't hide their interest.

It's almost a breath of fresh air when talking with these girls. I still treat them like all others but there is almost no bullsh!tting or sh!t testing. And they are in terrific shape (now) and even more self conscious about going to gym or what they eat or their weight. One girl weighs herself every day and if she gains a few pounds does a crazy workout for a week or two.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it happens more often than you realize. there are heaps of chicks that were chubby during high school that are now skinny and then there is also the opposite which is a lot of the skinny *popular* girls are now either fat or have kids and a saggy ass gut all because they were lil wh0res when they were young and had a teenage pregnancy hahaha.

plus i think the formerly fatties look way better because they get some muscle tone while losing the weight so they look a lot healthier and properly curved * especially if they do dem squats ooooh yeahhhh *
 
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I agree that they have a much better attitude.

The real test of keeping weight off is doing it while in a long relationship.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
The real test of keeping weight off is doing it while in a long relationship.
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Yeah, that is a huge test. Quite often they will lose weight to land a guy and balloon up once they feel like you will stick around. I got caught up in one of these deals. When it was at the end, she had chunked up quite a bit and tried to blame me for her gaining weight.
 
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^^I basically broke up with a girl once who got chubby after she thought we were in a relationship.

The real nail in the coffin for me was that she literally lived directly behind a gym. She just couldn't motivate herself to go there. Instead she ate chocolate and rested easy in the fact that she thought she had secured somebody.

I still feel bad for her, but it was what it was.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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