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Interesting
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I think drugs are the more likely culprit.And she's only 36... 37?!
Taking in too much different DNA's will screw up a women's body and mind.
Defect cascading.I think drugs are the more likely culprit.
More like too many hugs from her uncle Joe as a kid and now as an adult she couldn't get enough... hugs.. and now she on the street.Defect cascading.
Poor morals or values causes her to take up porn acting which in turns causes her to be as she is now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
More like too many hugs from her uncle Joe as a kid and now as an adult she couldn't get enough... hugs.. and now she on the street.
I save my pity and help for those who tries but failed.More like too many hugs from her uncle Joe as a kid and now as an adult she couldn't get enough... hugs.. and now she on the street.
Whilst I was on a business trip to a conference in Hong Kong, I was introduced to a high priced Singaporean part time prostitute who commanded a price tag of US $25k per night.Are girls who have sexualy been abused, more likely to turn into these raging porn wh0res?
$25,000 US / night for a mother of a young child? Wow. Im shocked. I thought maybe $5,000 US / night max for a hot young childless woman in early 20s.Whilst I was on a business trip to a conference in Hong Kong, I was introduced to a high priced Singaporean part time prostitute who commanded a price tag of US $25k per night.
Gorgeous 'almost well heeled' women that does it maybe once or twice a year will command such a price.$25,000 US / night for a mother of a young child? Wow. Im shocked. I thought maybe $5,000 US / night max for a hot young childless woman in early 20s.
What would a top actress in China go for - $100,000 US / night?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most likely drugs or mental illness or both.Interesting
more likely, too many hugs from uncle joe as a kid and, having that happen so young, she believes sex defines her value and is the main way she can get attention, so she pursues that profession to get attention instead of dealing with the damage done by uncle joe. the damage done by uncle joe, and too many un intimate sexual partners (because she uses sex to attract men) and the emotional pain from uncle joe and the number of partners festers, so she turns to drugs to shut the noise out.More like too many hugs from her uncle Joe as a kid and now as an adult she couldn't get enough... hugs.. and now she on the street.
not necessarily porn stars as a profession (tho the incidence of past sexual abuse is probably high with those workers) , but they are incredibly more likely to be promiscuous, having learned early on that sex/being sexual is a sure way to grab male attentionAre girls who have sexualy been abused, more likely to turn into these raging porn wh0res?
Some solid truths here.. If she has been sexualy abused, it is much more likely she will be an attention wh0re.. Or likely to cheat.not necessarily porn stars as a profession (tho the incidence of past sexual abuse is probably high with those workers) , but they are incredibly more likely to be promiscuous, having learned early on that sex/being sexual is a sure way to grab male attention
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
In interviews a lot of porn stars admit to have been sexually abused.Are girls who have sexualy been abused, more likely to turn into these raging porn wh0res?
This is why I posted the above video.. Sad as it is that someone had to experience This trauma..@soulforge 3 out of 4 ppl have been sexually abused in some way. So take a quik cognitive inventor of 4 friends you can think of, at least 3 of them have some history.
There were so many men I dated whom were sexually abused as children. I married a man who was sexually abused as a child. He mislead me about having therapy to deal with it.
Never again will I date anyone that has sexual abuse in their past. mature relationships end up being a clusterfvck because they cant separate the the grooming and manipulation of their predators from ALL partners.
I'm worth a healthy relationship and I'm no mans white knight (white queen?)
I plan on running and encourage everyone to do the same.
lol if the stats are correct, we've both just eliminated 75% of the dating population .....This is why I posted the above video.. Sad as it is that someone had to experience This trauma..
We simply cannot fix these people. It is beyond us.
I am sure some victims of sexual abuse can turn there lives around, however I do not want to take that huge risk.
Those who do not turn there lives around.. Well they will simply ruin you.
Any woman ever mentions sexual abuse to me ever again... I plan to fukin run
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.