Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
I got a number but forgot the girl's name. It's not an easy one since she's asian. Any tips on how to reveal her name? I did a quick search and couldn't find anything in the DJ bible either.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Forgotten name
- Thread starter Vanilla
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Egyptiandude1
Don Juan
"Hey babe I was curious as how you spell your name?" always works for me
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
works every time
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
works for me
Smooth Player 056
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Great line...kinda sucks though if her name is Jen though
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
legolas
Master Don Juan
Her: You donlt know how to spell Jen?
You: Is it one or two n-s
(never missing a beat)AC/DC
Master Don Juan
"How do you want your name in my phone?"
"How do you spell that? I didnt pass grade school."
"How do you spell that? I didnt pass grade school."
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
The only option is to make up a name. Call her, tell her you were reading the dictionary just now, and you found a great nickname for her. Something like racket or lawnchair - it should be stupid.