Vanilla
Senior Don Juan
I got a number but forgot the girl's name. It's not an easy one since she's asian. Any tips on how to reveal her name? I did a quick search and couldn't find anything in the DJ bible either.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Forgotten name
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Egyptiandude1
Don Juan
"Hey babe I was curious as how you spell your name?" always works for me
brenbaus
Senior Don Juan
works every time
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
works for me
Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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Great line...kinda sucks though if her name is Jen though
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
legolas
Master Don Juan
Her: You donlt know how to spell Jen?
You: Is it one or two n-s
(never missing a beat)AC/DC
Master Don Juan
"How do you want your name in my phone?"
"How do you spell that? I didnt pass grade school."
"How do you spell that? I didnt pass grade school."
naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
The only option is to make up a name. Call her, tell her you were reading the dictionary just now, and you found a great nickname for her. Something like racket or lawnchair - it should be stupid.