"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So this weekend, I was at the airport waiting at the gater for my return flight from a college visit. This hot girl and I started talking, we really hit it off, had kino going, blah blah blah. We board the plane at different times, sit in different locations, and we dont talk again. Now this girl is from the same town as me, and we're going to the same college. Through the course of our conversation, she told me about her myspace. I know her name and everything cause of this roll call we took at the airport, so if I wanted to bad enough, I could find her and message her on myspace. I dont have a myspace (and told her I didnt) except for this joke one of a public figure my friend and I made. Now, I dont know what to do...should I...

1. Forget about it, and learn the hard way to always get the number first chance

2. Risk looking overinterested by messaging her on myspace


All I can say guys is always close. This girl was a 9 and modeled. Always Close. Always.Close.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell me her myspace url, i wanna see how she looks like. dont worry i am not stealing her from you, she probably to old for me anyways!!
 

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if you get a 2nd chance, use it wisely... you could have something good
 

DreamTheaterFan

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Yeah...another option I have is waiting until college and hoping I run into her. I'll definitely have forgotten by then though ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lesson: Close the first fvcking time its a lot easier then!

Personally I'd go for it. You've nothing to lose, really.
 

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And I remember in my AFC days listening to Space Dye Vest when I'd just been dumped. Not a good idea.
 

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aftershock said:
And I remember in my AFC days listening to Space Dye Vest when I'd just been dumped. Not a good idea.
Haha, never done it myself, but certainly doesn't sound like a good idea. I hope now you listen to "As I Am";)
 

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DreamTheaterFan said:
1. Forget about it, and learn the hard way to always get the number first chance

2. Risk looking overinterested by messaging her on myspace
Oh my god. This site has help make a breed of such idiots it's unfathomable. No offense intended man, but think about what you just said. You risk looking over-eager if you track her down on myspace, true. She might not care and you might hit it off. Or if she's turned off by it, then worst case scenario, you don't get to bang her. So your best alternative plan of action is to automatically force the worst case scenario, by not contacting her, you guarantee that you're not going to bang her.

Think about that. How does that make sense? How is option one in any way better than option 2?

2) maybe you get to hit it, maybe you don't.

1) You don't get to hit it.

You people take the DJB waaaaay too far and create the exact problems you hope to avoid in the first place, lack of sex.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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