"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So this weekend, I was at the airport waiting at the gater for my return flight from a college visit. This hot girl and I started talking, we really hit it off, had kino going, blah blah blah. We board the plane at different times, sit in different locations, and we dont talk again. Now this girl is from the same town as me, and we're going to the same college. Through the course of our conversation, she told me about her myspace. I know her name and everything cause of this roll call we took at the airport, so if I wanted to bad enough, I could find her and message her on myspace. I dont have a myspace (and told her I didnt) except for this joke one of a public figure my friend and I made. Now, I dont know what to do...should I...

1. Forget about it, and learn the hard way to always get the number first chance

2. Risk looking overinterested by messaging her on myspace


All I can say guys is always close. This girl was a 9 and modeled. Always Close. Always.Close.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tell me her myspace url, i wanna see how she looks like. dont worry i am not stealing her from you, she probably to old for me anyways!!
 

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if you get a 2nd chance, use it wisely... you could have something good
 

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Yeah...another option I have is waiting until college and hoping I run into her. I'll definitely have forgotten by then though ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lesson: Close the first fvcking time its a lot easier then!

Personally I'd go for it. You've nothing to lose, really.
 

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And I remember in my AFC days listening to Space Dye Vest when I'd just been dumped. Not a good idea.
 

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aftershock said:
And I remember in my AFC days listening to Space Dye Vest when I'd just been dumped. Not a good idea.
Haha, never done it myself, but certainly doesn't sound like a good idea. I hope now you listen to "As I Am";)
 

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DreamTheaterFan said:
1. Forget about it, and learn the hard way to always get the number first chance

2. Risk looking overinterested by messaging her on myspace
Oh my god. This site has help make a breed of such idiots it's unfathomable. No offense intended man, but think about what you just said. You risk looking over-eager if you track her down on myspace, true. She might not care and you might hit it off. Or if she's turned off by it, then worst case scenario, you don't get to bang her. So your best alternative plan of action is to automatically force the worst case scenario, by not contacting her, you guarantee that you're not going to bang her.

Think about that. How does that make sense? How is option one in any way better than option 2?

2) maybe you get to hit it, maybe you don't.

1) You don't get to hit it.

You people take the DJB waaaaay too far and create the exact problems you hope to avoid in the first place, lack of sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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