"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Forget asking for DATES. Youre offering an ADVENTURE!!!!!

NeverFear

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When I used to ask women out, here's what it sounded like:

1. What ya' doing on friday night?
2. Do you like Italian?

And I'm guessing that you guys have a better offer, but not all that much better.



Remember guys. You're NOT asking her on a date. You're asking her to join in you BIG ADVENTURE.

So MAKE it one.

The date you go on must be absolutely unforgettable. this means something unpredictable, exciting, and fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Exile

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Good advice, but what are we suppose to say?
"Hey, come over, letz go on a great adventure...ehh....to my basement, with that 52 inch tv and a new movie rent." lol, just kidding. But seriously, can u give some examples?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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"Friday, let's try out that new Italian restaurant that we saw on TV the other night."

It' doesn't have to be a huge adventure, just decisive.
 

DreamerZZ35

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Originally posted by NeverFear
When I used to ask women out, here's what it sounded like:

1. What ya' doing on friday night?
2. Do you like Italian?

And I'm guessing that you guys have a better offer, but not all that much better.



Remember guys. You're NOT asking her on a date. You're asking her to join in you BIG ADVENTURE.

So MAKE it one.

The date you go on must be absolutely unforgettable. this means something unpredictable, exciting, and fun.

Here is a recent example (emailed her)......

Your prescense is required next Thursday evening for hours of fun, laughter, drinks and best of all..... me!

We will start our eveing at the funnybone* 6:30 pm ring my bell (yeah baby!) and well go....



*comedy club they are cheap and you get them laughing.m Which is associated with you... not only that but its not the typical dinner,dancing or movie thing... once the weather turns nicer Im doing the zoo and minature golf.... anthing that is activity based.
 

-HPNOTIQ-

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Lame:
"Hey girl, you wanna go out for Sushi this Sunday Around 9ish?"

DJ Style:
"Hey girl...This Sunday night, wear something really sexy because I'm taking you out to this utlra-swank Sushi Bar Downtown...Yeah, everybodies going to be there because they have a great happy hour at nine and a Hawaiian Band that plays reggae music all night...I don't want to miss out on all the fun...sooo..I'll pick you up at 9 and we'll get there by 930ish for drinks and some good ass food!!!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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