You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't think I know any forearm workouts without weights...Originally posted by bladeux
What are good forearms exercices?
I have no dumbells home either, only barbells.
I've trained my biceps/triceps and they have got bigger, but my forearms are still that damn skinny, and it looks weird.
thx..
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sounds like someone has been too many exercises with their right arm in the shower lately. lol j/pOriginally posted by Pure Drive +
how do you even your forearms? My left one is scrawny as hell and I want it to be bigger. My right forearm is awesome though because it is my throwing arm.
You knew you were going to get flammed for that, right?Originally posted by Pure Drive +
how do you even your forearms? My left one is scrawny as hell and I want it to be bigger. My right forearm is awesome though because it is my throwing arm.
I assumed people were a little bit more mature than that, especially when I said it was from pitching.Originally posted by Bling
You knew you were going to get flammed for that, right?
He's telling the truth, handling balls all day will do that.Originally posted by Pure Drive +
I assumed people were a little bit more mature than that, especially when I said it was from pitching.
I guess I was wrong.![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
OMG bumpOriginally posted by Levex
He's telling the truth, handling balls all day will do that.