She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't think I know any forearm workouts without weights...Originally posted by bladeux
What are good forearms exercices?
I have no dumbells home either, only barbells.
I've trained my biceps/triceps and they have got bigger, but my forearms are still that damn skinny, and it looks weird.
thx..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sounds like someone has been too many exercises with their right arm in the shower lately. lol j/pOriginally posted by Pure Drive +
how do you even your forearms? My left one is scrawny as hell and I want it to be bigger. My right forearm is awesome though because it is my throwing arm.
You knew you were going to get flammed for that, right?Originally posted by Pure Drive +
how do you even your forearms? My left one is scrawny as hell and I want it to be bigger. My right forearm is awesome though because it is my throwing arm.
I assumed people were a little bit more mature than that, especially when I said it was from pitching.Originally posted by Bling
You knew you were going to get flammed for that, right?
He's telling the truth, handling balls all day will do that.Originally posted by Pure Drive +
I assumed people were a little bit more mature than that, especially when I said it was from pitching.
I guess I was wrong.![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OMG bumpOriginally posted by Levex
He's telling the truth, handling balls all day will do that.