"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For those who said i didnt need the surgeries done

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Grewd said:
A super persistant and consistent troll? Had this been some guy popping up out of nowhere I would be more inclined to agree. He's been going on and on across several forums, google the username picollo30. That's the username he used to upload the pictures, he's got forum profiles under the same username with the same story. There's also a twitter account with that username, which shows what probably is his real name.
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I believe he is real and serious... Mental illness like this exists. He shows all the hallmarks of his condition. Even his constant posting is part of the condition as he would try to either seek whatever positive validation he can (which is never enough), or even if people insult his looks it confirms the delusion. It sounds absurd but people in a delusion do not want to believe it is just a delusion, they believe in the delusion as their reality. I have seen more ridiculous things than this...

I offered him a place to go where they would offer him better psychological support. But I doubt he will take it because he is not looking for that, and he likely has either given up or has become entrenched in the delusion. He likely is also in therapy, but judging by him going for cosmetic surgery and his posts I doubt the therapist was successful at all... Which is typical because there is no real cure for insanity.

But either way, he should not be here... These kinds of threads he makes are not going to help him and will only drag him down deeper into his delusion. Not to mention that this kind of stuff is not suitable for SoSuave.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Asmodeus said:
I believe he is real and serious... Mental illness like this exists. He shows all the hallmarks of his condition. Even his constant posting is part of the condition as he would try to either seek whatever positive validation he can (which is never enough), or even if people insult his looks it confirms the delusion. It sounds absurd but people in a delusion do not want to believe it is just a delusion, they believe in the delusion as their reality. I have seen more ridiculous things than this...

I offered him a place to go where they would offer him better psychological support. But I doubt he will take it because he is not looking for that, and he likely has either given up or has become entrenched in the delusion. He likely is also in therapy, but judging by him going for cosmetic surgery and his posts I doubt the therapist was successful at all... Which is typical because there is no real cure for insanity.

But either way, he should not be here... These kinds of threads he makes are not going to help him and will only drag him down deeper into his delusion. Not to mention that this kind of stuff is not suitable for SoSuave.
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That he virtully solicits derision, then gripes about it is the only 'sign' I need.

He want to hear what he wants to hear.
 
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In any obsession, an underlying motive rests dormant.

OP, what is your motive? Surely, it's not your looks, as if you had a string of 8s or 9s at your beck and call, you could give a fvck about your appearance, right? Or?

Are you just looking to get laid, a relationship, or children by any girl? Or must the girl meet a baseline threshhold (e.g. an 8, good values, etc.)?

OP, I would be interested (if this thread is not closed before then) in hearing what your guised motive is behind your looks obsession. Be specific in describing your goal.
 
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can someone gime an example of a guy that looks like me?

is this it? please google stevi ritchie minus the hair
 
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Clueless2k16 said:
can someone gime an example of a guy that looks like me?

is this it? please google stevi ritchie minus the hair
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Your excessive focus on looks is the problem, stop comparing your looks to others. Seriously, stop that sh!t. It's pure poison to your self-esteem.

I've seen the pictures of your eyes, yes they're droopy or whatever it's called. But it's not as ugly and repulsive as you think it is.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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being repulsive is not that bad, less money spent, more time for me and more money spent on me, i can always pay a hooker for sex, plus you can see whos really honestly interested in getting to know me or not. being repulsive is not bad at all.
 
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Grewd said:
Your excessive focus on looks is the problem, stop comparing your looks to others. Seriously, stop that sh!t. It's pure poison to your self-esteem.

I've seen the pictures of your eyes, yes they're droopy or whatever it's called. But it's not as ugly and repulsive as you think it is.
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i knew it :) truth is starting to come to light
 
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Clueless2k16 said:
i knew it :) truth is starting to come to light
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What truth? You look like you do, but none of us thinks you look ugly. Stevi Richie looks good, he's easily distinguishable because of the eyes of course, but not in a negative way. You don't look bad with those eyes either.

I'm pretty sure I speak for most of the forum when I again say you don't look as bad as you think.

It's all of us against you. You act like a crazy person who says "I'm not crazy, everyone else is". Do you see my point?
 
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Grew ad said:
What truth? You look like you do, but none of us thinks you look ugly. Stevi Richie looks good, he's easily distinguishable because of the eyes of course, but not in a negative way. You don't look bad with those eyes either.

I'm pretty sure I speak for most of the forum when I again say you don't look as bad as you think.

It's all of us against you. You act like a crazy person who says "I'm not crazy, everyone else is". Do you see my point?
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no worries :) i always have hookers like i said. or do you think they will reject my money if they see my face?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just do it already. Speed up evolutuon and just fvcking do it. Or fix your fvcking mindset and adapt along with the rest of the world. Toughen up already, you fail because you let others affect you. You still take other people's sh!t, no one respects you. Have you ever stood up for yourself? When someone starts talking crap to you, have you ever just told them off? Have you ever threatened to kick the **** out of them? Have you ever actually pushed someone or fought back against them? Grow a pair of balls!
 
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Keep posting the pictures of the Bassett hound with your profile pics!! I'll grab the popcorn, this should be interesting!
 
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