"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For those who have stopped Masturbating

itishe

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I know alot of guys here planned or are in the process of quitting masturbation all together. I was curious how that is going for you guys. Is the sex better? Are you hornier? Do you get limp less during sex due to higher sex drive?

Tell me all the benefits of quitting that you've experienced.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Poonani Maker

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lost sex drive
 

Fuglydude

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The only way i can not masturbate is if I'm busy ALL the time and dont' get a chance to... I live with my gf so sex is always available. However, I do shift work and our schedules sometimes don't overlap a lot so I take care of it myself.

My sex drive is too high to not jerk it. I find when I stop for a couple of days sometimes I get so horny I have trouble focusing on stuff because all i think of is sex. I also pop a lot easier during sex when I don't do it :D ...

I don't really understand why guys want to stop masturbating. Like anything else, what's wrong with doing it in moderation?
 

Darth

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It's really hard for the first few weeks. You start looking at all the girls like pieces of meat. It's awful. It's actually a withdrawal cycle that includes other things like anxiety, insomnia, and other stuff.

If you can get past that, though, you start feeling a lot better about yourself. But it's hard to do.

So the long-term effects are really good, but short-term effects suck, which is why most people cave after a couple weeks. They need masturbation to feel normal.

But yeah, in general you feel hornier even after having quit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DrD77

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What I have been doing is cutting back, not cutting it out altogether. I only do it like once every 2 days or so. I know that I wouldn't be able to last without it, so this is my solution. I also quit porn.
 

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I think quitting porn is the all around best thing to do. I have heard of guys that cant do their thing without their hand but i think that's pretty rare. But I think it's more common to have a messed up perception of beauty because of porn.
 

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as for all things in life....too much or too little isn't good.

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i posted an article about the ill effects of (compulsive) masturbation in another thread. im trying to fight it off now. i have had alot of them symptoms.
 

mrRuckus

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kabatura said:
But I think it's more common to have a messed up perception of beauty because of porn.

Or so the fat chicks would have you believe...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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