"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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War Against Betaism

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Months ago a book called "The Multi-orgasmic man" caught my eye (as well as other not as well known books containing the same contents and techniques). I've practiced with some of the more basic exercises and got lazy somewhere along the line and just stopped doing them. Recently I made a self observation of my behaviour with women when I masturbate and don't masturbate. The results were obvious; I had much more success when I don't then when I do, I just didn't realize how staggering they were. This is a common topic around these boards that even inspired some to not jack off at all.

Though recently I recall a study in kamasutra books where worms who masturbated lived the least, those who didn't had a longer life span, while multiorgasmic worms lived the longest. We're obviously not worms but that raises an interesting point and it makes sense to those who understand the art of tantra. It is said that orgasming multiple times ADDS energy to your body, not NEGATE it like regular masturbation does (if this doesn't make sense then read the book).

With this in mind, instead of detaching my hand from my bestfriend forever save for a special day in the week, I thought going back to these tantric exercises would be killing two birds with one stone. Which brings me to my question; how long was it until you got your first multiorgasm? I'm usually more committed to an exercise if I'm given a timeframe.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was afraid people would sway off the real topic, I should have just lied and said real people instead of worms...

beats me, it was just a study.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I was afraid people would sway off the real topic, I should have just lied and said real people instead of worms...

beats me, it was just a study.
Nah, sorry. Was just wondering. Not much help to get from me, cant really say I have ever had a multiple orgasm.
 

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Nah, sorry. Was just wondering. Not much help to get from me, cant really say I have ever had a multiple orgasm.
Eh it's all right, I can't picture a lot of people here performing the arts, it's really not well known. The world of tantra is really interesting; some women in asia have exercised their pvssies to the point where they're able to insert several balls into them, and shoot them out into a bucket 25ft away. Can you picture how awesome that would be on you if you had a partner like that :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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