"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For those practicing tantric exercises regularly

War Against Betaism

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Months ago a book called "The Multi-orgasmic man" caught my eye (as well as other not as well known books containing the same contents and techniques). I've practiced with some of the more basic exercises and got lazy somewhere along the line and just stopped doing them. Recently I made a self observation of my behaviour with women when I masturbate and don't masturbate. The results were obvious; I had much more success when I don't then when I do, I just didn't realize how staggering they were. This is a common topic around these boards that even inspired some to not jack off at all.

Though recently I recall a study in kamasutra books where worms who masturbated lived the least, those who didn't had a longer life span, while multiorgasmic worms lived the longest. We're obviously not worms but that raises an interesting point and it makes sense to those who understand the art of tantra. It is said that orgasming multiple times ADDS energy to your body, not NEGATE it like regular masturbation does (if this doesn't make sense then read the book).

With this in mind, instead of detaching my hand from my bestfriend forever save for a special day in the week, I thought going back to these tantric exercises would be killing two birds with one stone. Which brings me to my question; how long was it until you got your first multiorgasm? I'm usually more committed to an exercise if I'm given a timeframe.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was afraid people would sway off the real topic, I should have just lied and said real people instead of worms...

beats me, it was just a study.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I was afraid people would sway off the real topic, I should have just lied and said real people instead of worms...

beats me, it was just a study.
Nah, sorry. Was just wondering. Not much help to get from me, cant really say I have ever had a multiple orgasm.
 

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In Motion said:
Nah, sorry. Was just wondering. Not much help to get from me, cant really say I have ever had a multiple orgasm.
Eh it's all right, I can't picture a lot of people here performing the arts, it's really not well known. The world of tantra is really interesting; some women in asia have exercised their pvssies to the point where they're able to insert several balls into them, and shoot them out into a bucket 25ft away. Can you picture how awesome that would be on you if you had a partner like that :eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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