Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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For those practicing tantric exercises regularly

War Against Betaism

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Months ago a book called "The Multi-orgasmic man" caught my eye (as well as other not as well known books containing the same contents and techniques). I've practiced with some of the more basic exercises and got lazy somewhere along the line and just stopped doing them. Recently I made a self observation of my behaviour with women when I masturbate and don't masturbate. The results were obvious; I had much more success when I don't then when I do, I just didn't realize how staggering they were. This is a common topic around these boards that even inspired some to not jack off at all.

Though recently I recall a study in kamasutra books where worms who masturbated lived the least, those who didn't had a longer life span, while multiorgasmic worms lived the longest. We're obviously not worms but that raises an interesting point and it makes sense to those who understand the art of tantra. It is said that orgasming multiple times ADDS energy to your body, not NEGATE it like regular masturbation does (if this doesn't make sense then read the book).

With this in mind, instead of detaching my hand from my bestfriend forever save for a special day in the week, I thought going back to these tantric exercises would be killing two birds with one stone. Which brings me to my question; how long was it until you got your first multiorgasm? I'm usually more committed to an exercise if I'm given a timeframe.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was afraid people would sway off the real topic, I should have just lied and said real people instead of worms...

beats me, it was just a study.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
I was afraid people would sway off the real topic, I should have just lied and said real people instead of worms...

beats me, it was just a study.
Nah, sorry. Was just wondering. Not much help to get from me, cant really say I have ever had a multiple orgasm.
 

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In Motion said:
Nah, sorry. Was just wondering. Not much help to get from me, cant really say I have ever had a multiple orgasm.
Eh it's all right, I can't picture a lot of people here performing the arts, it's really not well known. The world of tantra is really interesting; some women in asia have exercised their pvssies to the point where they're able to insert several balls into them, and shoot them out into a bucket 25ft away. Can you picture how awesome that would be on you if you had a partner like that :eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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