"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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for those of you who want to know when to kiss a girl

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  • Ok..I went out on a first date with a woman. Met at a bar and sat across from her. After a while I said I was having trouble hearing her and moved over to her side. Put my knee on her leg and my hand on her thigh
  • I leaned in close and talked in her ear...looked into her eyes and understood she wanted a kiss...what did i do? I kissed her! I didnt wait till the date was over and walk her to her car. So for those guys that want to know when to kiss a girl. You will know...take action and do it!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best advice i have ever got is get close as much as to her . Enter her super personal.space while talking n doing kino. If she doesnt run away and is allowing u to enter her body range within 6-7 inches then go for kiss without second thought. When u go this close to her u will get feelings on ur own that its time to kiss n u should go n kiss her. Kiss her at that time. She will get to know that u are about to kiss her n she will be expecting it as she has given u all the signs for the kiss. So kiss her thats it. Best way to do is. Hold her one hand and put ur one hand near her ear and look at her lips n eyes n if she doesnt run away after this then kiss her
 

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Yes yes yes! The mid-date kiss close is a must! Never wait until the end, that's what traditional blue pill guys do.

If she accepts the kiss, hold hands the rest of the night. If she doesn't accept it, tell her you have to get home to take your goldfish for a walk.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes yes yes! The mid-date kiss close is a must! Never wait until the end, that's what traditional blue pill guys do.

If she accepts the kiss, hold hands the rest of the night. If she doesn't accept it, tell her you have to get home to take your goldfish for a walk.
I kissed her several times and kept up the kino. I have to clean out my litterbox
 

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Best advice i have ever got is get close as much as to her . Enter her super personal.space while talking n doing kino. If she doesnt run away and is allowing u to enter her body range within 6-7 inches then go for kiss without second thought. When u go this close to her u will get feelings on ur own that its time to kiss n u should go n kiss her. Kiss her at that time. She will get to know that u are about to kiss her n she will be expecting it as she has given u all the signs for the kiss. So kiss her thats it. Best way to do is. Hold her one hand and put ur one hand near her ear and look at her lips n eyes n if she doesnt run away after this then kiss her
You are thinking to much. Your gut will tell you. Don't over analyze.
 
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