"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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for those of you who want to know when to kiss a girl

dustmuffin

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  • Ok..I went out on a first date with a woman. Met at a bar and sat across from her. After a while I said I was having trouble hearing her and moved over to her side. Put my knee on her leg and my hand on her thigh
  • I leaned in close and talked in her ear...looked into her eyes and understood she wanted a kiss...what did i do? I kissed her! I didnt wait till the date was over and walk her to her car. So for those guys that want to know when to kiss a girl. You will know...take action and do it!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Best advice i have ever got is get close as much as to her . Enter her super personal.space while talking n doing kino. If she doesnt run away and is allowing u to enter her body range within 6-7 inches then go for kiss without second thought. When u go this close to her u will get feelings on ur own that its time to kiss n u should go n kiss her. Kiss her at that time. She will get to know that u are about to kiss her n she will be expecting it as she has given u all the signs for the kiss. So kiss her thats it. Best way to do is. Hold her one hand and put ur one hand near her ear and look at her lips n eyes n if she doesnt run away after this then kiss her
 

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Yes yes yes! The mid-date kiss close is a must! Never wait until the end, that's what traditional blue pill guys do.

If she accepts the kiss, hold hands the rest of the night. If she doesn't accept it, tell her you have to get home to take your goldfish for a walk.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes yes yes! The mid-date kiss close is a must! Never wait until the end, that's what traditional blue pill guys do.

If she accepts the kiss, hold hands the rest of the night. If she doesn't accept it, tell her you have to get home to take your goldfish for a walk.
I kissed her several times and kept up the kino. I have to clean out my litterbox
 

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Best advice i have ever got is get close as much as to her . Enter her super personal.space while talking n doing kino. If she doesnt run away and is allowing u to enter her body range within 6-7 inches then go for kiss without second thought. When u go this close to her u will get feelings on ur own that its time to kiss n u should go n kiss her. Kiss her at that time. She will get to know that u are about to kiss her n she will be expecting it as she has given u all the signs for the kiss. So kiss her thats it. Best way to do is. Hold her one hand and put ur one hand near her ear and look at her lips n eyes n if she doesnt run away after this then kiss her
You are thinking to much. Your gut will tell you. Don't over analyze.
 
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