"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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for those of you who want to know when to kiss a girl

dustmuffin

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  • Ok..I went out on a first date with a woman. Met at a bar and sat across from her. After a while I said I was having trouble hearing her and moved over to her side. Put my knee on her leg and my hand on her thigh
  • I leaned in close and talked in her ear...looked into her eyes and understood she wanted a kiss...what did i do? I kissed her! I didnt wait till the date was over and walk her to her car. So for those guys that want to know when to kiss a girl. You will know...take action and do it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best advice i have ever got is get close as much as to her . Enter her super personal.space while talking n doing kino. If she doesnt run away and is allowing u to enter her body range within 6-7 inches then go for kiss without second thought. When u go this close to her u will get feelings on ur own that its time to kiss n u should go n kiss her. Kiss her at that time. She will get to know that u are about to kiss her n she will be expecting it as she has given u all the signs for the kiss. So kiss her thats it. Best way to do is. Hold her one hand and put ur one hand near her ear and look at her lips n eyes n if she doesnt run away after this then kiss her
 

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Yes yes yes! The mid-date kiss close is a must! Never wait until the end, that's what traditional blue pill guys do.

If she accepts the kiss, hold hands the rest of the night. If she doesn't accept it, tell her you have to get home to take your goldfish for a walk.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes yes yes! The mid-date kiss close is a must! Never wait until the end, that's what traditional blue pill guys do.

If she accepts the kiss, hold hands the rest of the night. If she doesn't accept it, tell her you have to get home to take your goldfish for a walk.
I kissed her several times and kept up the kino. I have to clean out my litterbox
 

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Best advice i have ever got is get close as much as to her . Enter her super personal.space while talking n doing kino. If she doesnt run away and is allowing u to enter her body range within 6-7 inches then go for kiss without second thought. When u go this close to her u will get feelings on ur own that its time to kiss n u should go n kiss her. Kiss her at that time. She will get to know that u are about to kiss her n she will be expecting it as she has given u all the signs for the kiss. So kiss her thats it. Best way to do is. Hold her one hand and put ur one hand near her ear and look at her lips n eyes n if she doesnt run away after this then kiss her
You are thinking to much. Your gut will tell you. Don't over analyze.
 
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