"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Exactly. The person whom you will fight will probably be bigger and stronger then you (People who are smaller then you will probably not pick a fight with you unless their is a group of them, therefore it is not an average person or an average situation).
Not really true.

In my opinion, many martial arts are DETRIMENTAL to your survival in real-life situations. In this category fall all of the McDojo Karate Schools, kung fu schools where you learn the "shaolin" secrets, ninja schools, and kitty tae kwon do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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strikers should know the grappling basics
grapplers should know the striking basics

but mixing and matching too much will fvck you up.

however, they do usually have good striking classes at BJJ schools, at least like once a week.
 

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i agree, sometimes the basics of both and then intergrating it
is the best way.
It makes up for what the other descipline is lacking.
If i could, i'd totally want to avoid a fight at all possible
but at a last resort - sucker punch the guy soo hard half his face breaks and his 'homies' run off...
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Not really true.

In my opinion, many martial arts are DETRIMENTAL to your survival in real-life situations. In this category fall all of the McDojo Karate Schools, kung fu schools where you learn the "shaolin" secrets, ninja schools, and kitty tae kwon do.
Absolutely!

Most people who practice martial arts (which I think is different from being a martial artist) have just enough skills to get themselves messed up in a real street fight.

It's not the art that you train but how you train it. You can do taekwon-do in a strip mall dojang, flicky kicky, Bruce Lee yelling sort of way or you can train the way the ROK black berets train. Same art, wildly different results.
 
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