"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Exactly. The person whom you will fight will probably be bigger and stronger then you (People who are smaller then you will probably not pick a fight with you unless their is a group of them, therefore it is not an average person or an average situation).
Not really true.

In my opinion, many martial arts are DETRIMENTAL to your survival in real-life situations. In this category fall all of the McDojo Karate Schools, kung fu schools where you learn the "shaolin" secrets, ninja schools, and kitty tae kwon do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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strikers should know the grappling basics
grapplers should know the striking basics

but mixing and matching too much will fvck you up.

however, they do usually have good striking classes at BJJ schools, at least like once a week.
 

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i agree, sometimes the basics of both and then intergrating it
is the best way.
It makes up for what the other descipline is lacking.
If i could, i'd totally want to avoid a fight at all possible
but at a last resort - sucker punch the guy soo hard half his face breaks and his 'homies' run off...
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Not really true.

In my opinion, many martial arts are DETRIMENTAL to your survival in real-life situations. In this category fall all of the McDojo Karate Schools, kung fu schools where you learn the "shaolin" secrets, ninja schools, and kitty tae kwon do.
Absolutely!

Most people who practice martial arts (which I think is different from being a martial artist) have just enough skills to get themselves messed up in a real street fight.

It's not the art that you train but how you train it. You can do taekwon-do in a strip mall dojang, flicky kicky, Bruce Lee yelling sort of way or you can train the way the ROK black berets train. Same art, wildly different results.
 
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