"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WORKEROUTER

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Exactly. The person whom you will fight will probably be bigger and stronger then you (People who are smaller then you will probably not pick a fight with you unless their is a group of them, therefore it is not an average person or an average situation).
Not really true.

In my opinion, many martial arts are DETRIMENTAL to your survival in real-life situations. In this category fall all of the McDojo Karate Schools, kung fu schools where you learn the "shaolin" secrets, ninja schools, and kitty tae kwon do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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strikers should know the grappling basics
grapplers should know the striking basics

but mixing and matching too much will fvck you up.

however, they do usually have good striking classes at BJJ schools, at least like once a week.
 

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i agree, sometimes the basics of both and then intergrating it
is the best way.
It makes up for what the other descipline is lacking.
If i could, i'd totally want to avoid a fight at all possible
but at a last resort - sucker punch the guy soo hard half his face breaks and his 'homies' run off...
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Not really true.

In my opinion, many martial arts are DETRIMENTAL to your survival in real-life situations. In this category fall all of the McDojo Karate Schools, kung fu schools where you learn the "shaolin" secrets, ninja schools, and kitty tae kwon do.
Absolutely!

Most people who practice martial arts (which I think is different from being a martial artist) have just enough skills to get themselves messed up in a real street fight.

It's not the art that you train but how you train it. You can do taekwon-do in a strip mall dojang, flicky kicky, Bruce Lee yelling sort of way or you can train the way the ROK black berets train. Same art, wildly different results.
 
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