oldmanofthesea
Master Don Juan
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You beat me to it.However, men WILL dump you if your weird about a guy coming over to your place to chill after 5 dates. I'm gonna go ahead and assume these girls are telling each other to withhold sex, and demand exclusively first. Cuz that's what "high quality" girls do.
and there were red flags like inviting himself to my place to make out the 4th and 5th date (to be fair he didn't try for sex but it's just weird and rude)
There is nothing weird or rude about it and if you read between the lines, she accepted his saying he was coming over and she accepted him initiating a make-out session too. Only now that she is butt-hurt over getting dumped is she going back and changing the narrative to try to make herself feel better.
It is tough to know if the guy actually did try for sex by covertly escalating physically the way a man should (as opposed to asking for it verbally) - but my guess is that he probably could sense that she wasn't going to sleep with him in a reasonable timeframe and he justifiably lost interest and moved on.
You can also tell she is pushy and entitled. "He even admitted to me he wasn't prioritizing me" Yeah so she called him out and pushed him about that. It worked so well for the guy she cut things off with, after all.
The real takeaway his what happened to the nice-guy who wanted a relationship with her. Notice she didn't make a single complaint about that guy and instead preferred to chase the other guy who had only mild interest in her. And look what happened to to the nice guy. If asked, her response would likely be that she just "wasn't that attracted to him." Men should never ask for exclusivity nor push for a relationship.