"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For The Tinder Swindler Types

taiyuu_otoko

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I've seen a few of these documentaries.

Guy lies his way into a woman's life, steals her money, breaks her heart, whatever.

My question is if a dude's got no problem lying his way into a woman's life, why do they always go after the old hags?

None of the ladies in these docs are anything to write home about...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I saw the Tinder Swindler doc and vaguely remember the women being in their 30s and having their act together professionally. Just googled them and they don't look so bad if you were an older guy. Not my types but they don't seem like hags.

So am guessing that they were at a more "desperate" stage in life romantically and also had fluid money that he could extract since career wise they were doing all right.
 

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Guy lies his way into a woman's life....
We all employ "spin" when pursuing mates, career advancement, etc etc. This only becomes corrosive, when someone starts taking everyone else in the vicinity for a ride, and giving very little in return
 

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So am guessing that they were at a more "desperate" stage in life romantically and also had fluid money that he could extract since career wise they were doing all right.
That makes sense.

I guess are doing it not just for the poon, but for the cash.
 

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I've seen a few of these documentaries.

Guy lies his way into a woman's life, steals her money, breaks her heart, whatever.

My question is if a dude's got no problem lying his way into a woman's life, why do they always go after the old hags?

None of the ladies in these docs are anything to write home about...
You kinda answered your own question.

Why does a predator go for an injured predator when it's strong enough to get the healthy ones?

Because it's about the easy kill. The young hot woman is a Hunter herself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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