"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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For The Tinder Swindler Types

taiyuu_otoko

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I've seen a few of these documentaries.

Guy lies his way into a woman's life, steals her money, breaks her heart, whatever.

My question is if a dude's got no problem lying his way into a woman's life, why do they always go after the old hags?

None of the ladies in these docs are anything to write home about...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vanderdonck

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I saw the Tinder Swindler doc and vaguely remember the women being in their 30s and having their act together professionally. Just googled them and they don't look so bad if you were an older guy. Not my types but they don't seem like hags.

So am guessing that they were at a more "desperate" stage in life romantically and also had fluid money that he could extract since career wise they were doing all right.
 

BaronOfHair

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Guy lies his way into a woman's life....
We all employ "spin" when pursuing mates, career advancement, etc etc. This only becomes corrosive, when someone starts taking everyone else in the vicinity for a ride, and giving very little in return
 

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So am guessing that they were at a more "desperate" stage in life romantically and also had fluid money that he could extract since career wise they were doing all right.
That makes sense.

I guess are doing it not just for the poon, but for the cash.
 

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I've seen a few of these documentaries.

Guy lies his way into a woman's life, steals her money, breaks her heart, whatever.

My question is if a dude's got no problem lying his way into a woman's life, why do they always go after the old hags?

None of the ladies in these docs are anything to write home about...
You kinda answered your own question.

Why does a predator go for an injured predator when it's strong enough to get the healthy ones?

Because it's about the easy kill. The young hot woman is a Hunter herself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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