"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For the more, um, Mature among us...the dreaded ED!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I do lift....heavy. It will be enlightening to see what urology has to say. Pretty much eat clean, with low carbs, high protein. Never smoked, no drugs, no alcohol...Do use Porpecia on a regular basis and know that can be problematic. Wonder if non steroidal anti inflammatory meds have an effect...like Alieve and such?
Sounds like you’re doing a lot of things right. I drink whiskey every day and take ibuprofen for back and shoulder issues. And so far no issues with getting wood.

The rabbit is actually a penis shaped (in various sizes) vibrator with little rabbit ears up near the base.

-Augustus-
 

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I do lift....heavy. It will be enlightening to see what urology has to say. Pretty much eat clean, with low carbs, high protein. Never smoked, no drugs, no alcohol...Do use Porpecia on a regular basis and know that can be problematic. Wonder if non steroidal anti inflammatory meds have an effect...like Alieve and such?
Your concerns about propecia: https://www.webmd.com/sexual-condit...pecia-proscar-new-sexual-dysfunction-warnings. You Might want to stop taking it and see what comes up (so to speak). Sorry... couldn’t resist.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The problem isn't inability to get and keep an erection. The problem is insufficient blood flow to the erectile tissues. Most likely you have athlerosclerosis. That's a build up of fatty plaque on the inside of your artery walls. It restricts blood flow a little more and a little more over a long time. One way to check to see if this is the case is to take your resting blood pressure. Is it noticably higher than 20 years ago?

The problem took decades to develop. It won't magically disappear with a few weeks of diet and exercise. You'll need medical help.

Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra are nitrates that reduce blood pressure. They work by releasing nitrous oxide into the bloodstream, which causes arteries to expand. These particular meds work better on the genitourinary system than do other nitrates. There's more to it than that, but that's the more important bit.

I take Cialis because it lasts longer. The so-called Cialis for Daily Use has insufficient dosage to work at all. I found that I need 10mg, and that most side effects disappear when I maintain a high enough concentration of the med in my body. Unfortunately, whenever the body level dips below a certain point, the side effects come rushing back. So I cut a 20mg tablet in half, and take half every 12 hours.

One interesting change is that my kidneys are working better, excreting more sugars. I know this because my pee suddenly became frothy like a good head on a beer. My urine had been flat for so long I hadn't noticed it. After a while, I also found a substantial reduction in the numbness and tingling in my toes.

You will know if you're taking enough Cialis when you awake with morning wood. That, too, is something I'd completely forgotten. Sure, Cialis won't make your 60-year-old prick as hard as when you were 40. Your Johnson will seem a bit less sensitive and sort of choked feeling. But the mere ability to function normally is a huge improvement in quality of life.

Well, I hope this helps. Best of luck.
 

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The problem isn't inability to get and keep an erection. The problem is insufficient blood flow to the erectile tissues. Most likely you have athlerosclerosis. That's a build up of fatty plaque on the inside of your artery walls. It restricts blood flow a little more and a little more over a long time. One way to check to see if this is the case is to take your resting blood pressure. Is it noticably higher than 20 years ago?

The problem took decades to develop. It won't magically disappear with a few weeks of diet and exercise. You'll need medical help.

Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra are nitrates that reduce blood pressure. They work by releasing nitrous oxide into the bloodstream, which causes arteries to expand. These particular meds work better on the genitourinary system than do other nitrates. There's more to it than that, but that's the more important bit.

I take Cialis because it lasts longer. The so-called Cialis for Daily Use has insufficient dosage to work at all. I found that I need 10mg, and that most side effects disappear when I maintain a high enough concentration of the med in my body. Unfortunately, whenever the body level dips below a certain point, the side effects come rushing back. So I cut a 20mg tablet in half, and take half every 12 hours.

One interesting change is that my kidneys are working better, excreting more sugars. I know this because my pee suddenly became frothy like a good head on a beer. My urine had been flat for so long I hadn't noticed it. After a while, I also found a substantial reduction in the numbness and tingling in my toes.

You will know if you're taking enough Cialis when you awake with morning wood. That, too, is something I'd completely forgotten. Sure, Cialis won't make your 60-year-old prick as hard as when you were 40. Your Johnson will seem a bit less sensitive and sort of choked feeling. But the mere ability to function normally is a huge improvement in quality of life.

Well, I hope this helps. Best of luck.
Most men have ED because their head was done in by the increase in the power of feminism over the last 20 years. The others are mostly overweight. Calcification of blood vessels etc are the minority conditions.

Take all of them men with issues and let them have all the sex the sex they want with a physically attractive woman that loves and desires them the problems will go away in 70-80% of men.

Many men are dealing with situation and women that are boner killers. The damage is deep.
 
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Most men have ED because their head was done in by the increase in the power of feminisn over the last 20 years. The others are mostly overweight. Calcification of blood vessels etc are the minority conditions.

Take all of them men with issues and let them have all the sex the sex they want with a physically attractive wpman that loves and desires them the problems will go away in 70-80% of men.

Many men are dealing with situation and women that are boner killers. The damage is deep.
I agree. The KETO diet will remove buildup in the vascular walls. This is a MODERN condition.
 

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I do believe the issue is a combination of the issues of age, and the fact of a whole lot of mental crap that lives in a man's head. It all adds up to a self fulfilling and increasing issue that once established is difficult to remedy, thus feeding upon itself creating doubt and further frustration with performance. Urology will address any physical causation, but the big head work will have to addressed by my own self evaluation and modification of life situation. Thanks for the replies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I do believe the issue is a combination of the issues of age, and the fact of a whole lot of mental crap that lives in a man's head. It all adds up to a self fulfilling and increasing issue that once established is difficult to remedy, thus feeding upon itself creating doubt and further frustration with performance. Urology will address any physical causation, but the big head work will have to addressed by my own self evaluation and modification of life situation. Thanks for the replies.
I had a ex which shut doen the sex and was issuing put downs and abuse. So no love was there. After some time my self worth and erections lessoned. It took about 6 months of daily abuse.

I got out of that situation. Cut contact and anything that reminds me. Got a new gf. Didnt mention my issue. Everything worked fine and my erevtions got stronger. My ex was completely out of my head because i was in new puzzy that desired me and treated me well.
Guys none of us can last with any woman treating us less than our worth. The cost is too great .
 
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And there it is! I am getting increasing pressure from her to legally commit to her, sell my property and move to her community. I just do not want to do that! And as such disrespect and hostility has been increasing. Last time we were together, performance was an issue, her response was, ok let's get up I have sh*t to do! Yeah, that me feel really special. She is an independent woman who has a past, orbiters, and the will to walk if she wants to do so. That is a deadly combination when it comes to dealing with the psychological aspects of the current problems. As I said this relationship has an expiration date that is rapidly approaching I fear.
 

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And there it is! I am getting increasing pressure from her to legally commit to her, sell my property and move to her community. I just do not want to do that! And as such disrespect and hostility has been increasing. Last time we were together, performance was an issue, her response was, ok let's get up I have sh*t to do! Yeah, that me feel really special. She is an independent woman who has a past, orbiters, and the will to walk if she wants to do so. That is a deadly combination when it comes to dealing with the psychological aspects of the current problems. As I said this relationship has an expiration date that is rapidly approaching I fear.
Eureka

Try banging other girls.
 

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Sadly im on the other side of the spectrum i dont last long enough.

Probably for the lack of sex i was having in ltr.

Now that im single i want to fix it ik about the cream i can use anything else that can help?
 
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Sadly im on the other side of the spectrum i dont last long enough.

Probably for the lack of sex i was having in ltr.

Now that im single i want to fix it ik about the cream i can use anything else that can help?
I wouldn’t rely on anything otherwise you will always have to have it.
Get her off a couple of times before you go to intercourse.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wouldn’t rely on anything otherwise you will always have to have it.
Get her off a couple of times before you go to intercourse.
Idk man tried that before did not work very much even when i was getting alot more sex.

I really want to enjoy it more with my future conquest, my ADHD might have something to do with it idk
 

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Hi Spinach,
Just to say that UBER is right about red and Blue Vegetables,add tomatoes,purple skinned Potatoes and Red Onions to his list,it's Svexual arousal benefits are really spin offs to the major benefit that is helping avoid Cancer and maintaining a healthy Prostrate...Speaking of which at your age you will probably be getting symptoms of an enlarged Prostate from time to time,something that can be relieved by just eating a complete head of Brocalli every couple of days,boil it for seven minutes in a large cup of Water,drink the juice and eat the rest,horrible as it is,it's not too bad in an omelette,really works wonders....getting back to poor old Spinach and his problems,are you taking a bit of Dutch courage before your little soirees?...just a half bottle of full octane Beer will put me off my mark!!...I am close to 75 but can always raise it,on occasion with the help of Viagra sometimes service two girls in one Day,generally manage it four times a week,my secret all the above plus four Vitamin B's and a Zinc pill daily and lifting heavy weights,a little every Day...Too much of that or too much work causes problems though...You say Cialis works in the AM,well think laterally,take the little pill in the morning...A little romp with the odd bit of stray will also lift my Libido for several weeks So good luck Spinach.
 

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Hi Spinach,
Just to say that UBER is right about red and Blue Vegetables,add tomatoes,purple skinned Potatoes and Red Onions to his list,it's Svexual arousal benefits are really spin offs to the major benefit that is helping avoid Cancer and maintaining a healthy Prostrate...Speaking of which at your age you will probably be getting symptoms of an enlarged Prostate from time to time,something that can be relieved by just eating a complete head of Brocalli every couple of days,boil it for seven minutes in a large cup of Water,drink the juice and eat the rest,horrible as it is,it's not too bad in an omelette,really works wonders....getting back to poor old Spinach and his problems,are you taking a bit of Dutch courage before your little soirees?...just a half bottle of full octane Beer will put me off my mark!!...I am close to 75 but can always raise it,on occasion with the help of Viagra sometimes service two girls in one Day,generally manage it four times a week,my secret all the above plus four Vitamin B's and a Zinc pill daily and lifting heavy weights,a little every Day...Too much of that or too much work causes problems though...You say Cialis works in the AM,well think laterally,take the little pill in the morning...A little romp with the odd bit of stray will also lift my Libido for several weeks So good luck Spinach.
Good man! Good to note a nice conjugation revs your sex drive for a couple weeks. Have you ever had a chick try to do bj only?
 

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Thank you kind Sir. I hope to do as well as described at your age.
 

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And there it is! I am getting increasing pressure from her to legally commit to her, sell my property and move to her community. I just do not want to do that! And as such disrespect and hostility has been increasing. Last time we were together, performance was an issue, her response was, ok let's get up I have sh*t to do! Yeah, that me feel really special. She is an independent woman who has a past, orbiters, and the will to walk if she wants to do so. That is a deadly combination when it comes to dealing with the psychological aspects of the current problems. As I said this relationship has an expiration date that is rapidly approaching I fear.
Redhead or a brunette nurse, nurse doesn't know about the redhead does she?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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