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For the first time I hooked up with a girl that has a relationship

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Today, for the first time, I hooked up with a girl that has (had?) a boyfriend (3 years) at a party where he was as well. Previously when an occupied girl showed interest I'd not continue, but this time I decided how far I could push it to test the theory of hypergamy (yes I know n=1). I started flirting and I was surprised with how good the response was, like seconds after I touched her she would grab my hand. After only an hour we were making out in the bedroom and he caught wind of something happening, tried to open the door even. We pretended nothing happened so things cooled down a bit, but overall still have quite some adrenaline from the whole deal. Interesting experience but probably not worth the trouble, and I guess I showed the guy her hypergamous nature.
 

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Reminds me of a summer night in a pool with a few naked people. There my buddy was with this married girl, both naked in the pool while her husband was standing there watching wedding vows go down in flames. He went home early while his wife got railed. Most pathetic thing I've ever witnessed.
 

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Honestly since I was a young kid fooling around and playing with girls, my honest guess is every single female I ever had intimate contact with already had at least one boyfriend or she was spinning plates in some way shape or form.

And I mean that across the board. Every age and every other factor: females always have multiple guys in one form or another and you usually do not know who.

It can be your girlfriend, wife, mistress, you name it: they all have more ready options than we do. And they keep it a secret a thousand times better, at least.

Females have this seduction stuff down pat. As guys we have to learn it but the females are all born with Phd’s in Seduction.
 

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Reminds me of a summer night in a pool with a few naked people. There my buddy was with this married girl, both naked in the pool while her husband was standing there watching wedding vows go down in flames. He went home early while his wife got railed. Most pathetic thing I've ever witnessed.
He should catch a domestic violence case?
 

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Honestly since I was a young kid fooling around and playing with girls, my honest guess is every single female I ever had intimate contact with already had at least one boyfriend or she was spinning plates in some way shape or form.

And I mean that across the board. Every age and every other factor: females always have multiple guys in one form or another and you usually do not know who.

It can be your girlfriend, wife, mistress, you name it: they all have more ready options than we do. And they keep it a secret a thousand times better, at least.

Females have this seduction stuff down pat. As guys we have to learn it but the females are all born with Phd’s in Seduction.
Females only have to say "yes"

Men have to be "****y funny" use "game" men have to seduce.
 

Rainman4707

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Today, for the first time, I hooked up with a girl that has (had?) a boyfriend (3 years) at a party where he was as well. Previously when an occupied girl showed interest I'd not continue, but this time I decided how far I could push it to test the theory of hypergamy (yes I know n=1). I started flirting and I was surprised with how good the response was, like seconds after I touched her she would grab my hand. After only an hour we were making out in the bedroom and he caught wind of something happening, tried to open the door even. We pretended nothing happened so things cooled down a bit, but overall still have quite some adrenaline from the whole deal. Interesting experience but probably not worth the trouble, and I guess I showed the guy her hypergamous nature.
VERY Dangerous game you played. Men will KILL you for being with their woman.
 

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Its a double edged sword. On one hand ,from a moral pov you "absolutely shouldn't so this". As described above this post, men will kill for love. On the other hand we ,indeed have this hypergamous dating environment.

The latter seems like a "natural thing". In nature all kinds of animal will murder you if even think about their spouse(s). But then we also could say hypergamy is a "thing of nature " and that monogamy is a hardwired made up fantasy.

Personally this is one of the reasons I hate being on the BF side of the fence. I've been on the non bf (cheating with me) side too often. I've seen women telling gruesome lies to their bf's. This alone should make a man redpill forever .You could have any type of female pulling this shyte in front of your eyes making you rp (think girls and women you knew closely, even sisters mothers and aunties).

The prize you'll pay is that sooner or later you WILL be on the bf side if the fence once again. And after x amount of relationship time you might become the paranoid one. But thats just the game we all play ,right?
 

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Today, for the first time, I hooked up with a girl that has (had?) a boyfriend (3 years) at a party where he was as well. Previously when an occupied girl showed interest I'd not continue, but this time I decided how far I could push it to test the theory of hypergamy (yes I know n=1). I started flirting and I was surprised with how good the response was, like seconds after I touched her she would grab my hand. After only an hour we were making out in the bedroom and he caught wind of something happening, tried to open the door even. We pretended nothing happened so things cooled down a bit, but overall still have quite some adrenaline from the whole deal. Interesting experience but probably not worth the trouble, and I guess I showed the guy her hypergamous nature.
Hahaha man give it a rest with the "hypergamous nature" stuff. We guys today read too much on the internet. Some people are simply unfaithful, and at other times people trade one partner for a more attractive one. It's nothing specific to men or women, the most we can say is that (if the statistics can be trusted) women are on average more likely to end a relationship than men are, but that still doesnt tell us everything.
 

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These are my rules for f/cking another man’s gf/wife

1. If I know him it’s a no
2. If a friend knows him it’s a no
3. If there are mutual friends between us even if he is a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend it’s a no

4.If I don’t know him and in complete different social circles with no overlap in between somehow connected to people we know then yes

Also I do not go out to get another man’s girl.
I do go about myself and the woman is the one that shows interest.

A couple years ago I had three plates that had a bf or a husband.

One plate ended things as she felt guilty.
No big deal I f/cked her for months!

Another plate lived with her bf and he found out because she forgot to delete messages. He never once came looking for me and knew where I worked at the time.

The third plate is married and we are still in contact.
It’s one of those when I’m in town we see each other.

I’m no longer the dumb boyfriend.
I have seen too much
I have experienced too much

Trust no b/tch
 

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Update: I spoke to her today, apparently it was good for their relationship because it induced a long needed talk. Can't make this **** up.
 

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Reminds me of a summer night in a pool with a few naked people. There my buddy was with this married girl, both naked in the pool while her husband was standing there watching wedding vows go down in flames. He went home early while his wife got railed. Most pathetic thing I've ever witnessed.
Wow. Why did she do it so openly? The guy was ..ahem...big? (yes, porn has brainwashed me - but there is some truth to the cliche).
 

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Wow. Why did she do it so openly? The guy was ..ahem...big? (yes, porn has brainwashed me - but there is some truth to the cliche).
Had nothing to do with penis size. All about her husband was beta and she didn't respect him nor care.
 

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Honestly since I was a young kid fooling around and playing with girls, my honest guess is every single female I ever had intimate contact with already had at least one boyfriend or she was spinning plates in some way shape or form.

And I mean that across the board. Every age and every other factor: females always have multiple guys in one form or another and you usually do not know who.

It can be your girlfriend, wife, mistress, you name it: they all have more ready options than we do. And they keep it a secret a thousand times better, at least.

Females have this seduction stuff down pat. As guys we have to learn it but the females are all born with Phd’s in Seduction.
i started branch swinging in 2002 or so because i learned it from women…
 

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I almost took home an engaged girl once but her friends stopped me. The fact that they even thought it was okay for her to go out and get ****faced at all is telling.

Also a while back I was "dancing" with a girl at a bar for a good while and later found out she had a BF and HE WAS THERE the whole time. What the fvck. I am continually becoming convinced that most women will only date men they can completely control.

Wow. Why did she do it so openly? The guy was ..ahem...big? (yes, porn has brainwashed me - but there is some truth to the cliche).
There is little truth to that. Most women don't care much as long as you're adequately sized. The only women who care about **** size are the town bicycles. And in fact being too big can cause them discomfort or pain.
 
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