I'm starting high-school on Monday, and I was wondering if I should start game on every girl that sparks my interests right away, or if I should, ya' know, be conservative in my conquest? The reason for me being conservative is because I'm not sure if I'll come on too strong, and I know rep. is important. Anyone have an opinion?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
For the first day of high-school..
- Thread starter *Salas*
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
justin11 said:
^That's good advice.
I started my last year of HS about 2 weeks ago and the mentality I now run through my head is:
"You interact with people, not pick them up."
Be a Don Juan, apply DJ techniques and women will come along naturally. I'm already receiving more signs of interest than before ever since I ran that simple mentality and applied DJ techniques.
Your first and foremost goal should be to build a good social network. Introduce yourself to everyone, talk to them, get to know them, become comfortable, etc. Once you have a solid group, the girls might come to you because of your popularity or you can game the specific ones you find most interesting.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Frayzer, what DJ techniques would you say helped you the most?Frayzer said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RiceandChicken
Senior Don Juan
Don't give a F***. That's my mentality. I honestly think high school is nothing more then a giant pool of chicks. Good luck dude. Try to become well known in your school. That way when parties happen you can be invited and stuff. All about status.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
try to keep your enemies to a minimum and keep your friends to a maximum*Salas* said:
granted, the first couple of days you should focus on seating, then you worry about being on good terms with everyone, finding the group of people you want to hang out with, etc.
after all that, then you should check out the girls in your classes and go after a few.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Posture helped perceive value i think.ediceneet12 said:
Straight back, shoulders up, arms evenly apart, walking at a decent pace, head up, smile(not a big one just a small smile) and chest out. Basically how an Alpha would walk is how I walk. I also sit in a very open, relaxed manner.
Everywhere you walk, you own the place mentality. Anyone who looks at you(that's a girl) you should be able to notice them and look back at them until they look away. If they happen to hold their gaze saying "Hey" wouldn't hurt because that could either mean someone they know is in back of you or they're interested. (;
The: "You interact with people, not pick them up." mentality has helped me talk to people and speak up from which I normally would not do. It can be anything to answering a Teachers questions, someones random outburst, to simply saying Hello to someone next to you. I would recommend the "Art of Conversation" which is just simply branching out the information given to you.
I have actually approached random people in the spur of the moment using that mindset.
I wouldn't say "Don't give a f*ck" but I will say that when/if someone gives you trouble, just agree sarcastically and phrase it to look like you're the best. As if, you're better than that person. Because, well you are.
Don't be afraid to talk or speak up, creating friends also creates enemies. You can't have one and not the other.