I'm starting high-school on Monday, and I was wondering if I should start game on every girl that sparks my interests right away, or if I should, ya' know, be conservative in my conquest? The reason for me being conservative is because I'm not sure if I'll come on too strong, and I know rep. is important. Anyone have an opinion?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
For the first day of high-school..
- Thread starter *Salas*
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
justin11 said:
^That's good advice.
I started my last year of HS about 2 weeks ago and the mentality I now run through my head is:
"You interact with people, not pick them up."
Be a Don Juan, apply DJ techniques and women will come along naturally. I'm already receiving more signs of interest than before ever since I ran that simple mentality and applied DJ techniques.
Your first and foremost goal should be to build a good social network. Introduce yourself to everyone, talk to them, get to know them, become comfortable, etc. Once you have a solid group, the girls might come to you because of your popularity or you can game the specific ones you find most interesting.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Frayzer, what DJ techniques would you say helped you the most?Frayzer said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RiceandChicken
Senior Don Juan
Don't give a F***. That's my mentality. I honestly think high school is nothing more then a giant pool of chicks. Good luck dude. Try to become well known in your school. That way when parties happen you can be invited and stuff. All about status.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
try to keep your enemies to a minimum and keep your friends to a maximum*Salas* said:
granted, the first couple of days you should focus on seating, then you worry about being on good terms with everyone, finding the group of people you want to hang out with, etc.
after all that, then you should check out the girls in your classes and go after a few.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Posture helped perceive value i think.ediceneet12 said:
Straight back, shoulders up, arms evenly apart, walking at a decent pace, head up, smile(not a big one just a small smile) and chest out. Basically how an Alpha would walk is how I walk. I also sit in a very open, relaxed manner.
Everywhere you walk, you own the place mentality. Anyone who looks at you(that's a girl) you should be able to notice them and look back at them until they look away. If they happen to hold their gaze saying "Hey" wouldn't hurt because that could either mean someone they know is in back of you or they're interested. (;
The: "You interact with people, not pick them up." mentality has helped me talk to people and speak up from which I normally would not do. It can be anything to answering a Teachers questions, someones random outburst, to simply saying Hello to someone next to you. I would recommend the "Art of Conversation" which is just simply branching out the information given to you.
I have actually approached random people in the spur of the moment using that mindset.
I wouldn't say "Don't give a f*ck" but I will say that when/if someone gives you trouble, just agree sarcastically and phrase it to look like you're the best. As if, you're better than that person. Because, well you are.
Don't be afraid to talk or speak up, creating friends also creates enemies. You can't have one and not the other.