I'm starting high-school on Monday, and I was wondering if I should start game on every girl that sparks my interests right away, or if I should, ya' know, be conservative in my conquest? The reason for me being conservative is because I'm not sure if I'll come on too strong, and I know rep. is important. Anyone have an opinion?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
For the first day of high-school..
- Thread starter *Salas*
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
justin11 said:
^That's good advice.
I started my last year of HS about 2 weeks ago and the mentality I now run through my head is:
"You interact with people, not pick them up."
Be a Don Juan, apply DJ techniques and women will come along naturally. I'm already receiving more signs of interest than before ever since I ran that simple mentality and applied DJ techniques.
Your first and foremost goal should be to build a good social network. Introduce yourself to everyone, talk to them, get to know them, become comfortable, etc. Once you have a solid group, the girls might come to you because of your popularity or you can game the specific ones you find most interesting.
ediceneet12
Don Juan
Frayzer, what DJ techniques would you say helped you the most?Frayzer said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RiceandChicken
Senior Don Juan
Don't give a F***. That's my mentality. I honestly think high school is nothing more then a giant pool of chicks. Good luck dude. Try to become well known in your school. That way when parties happen you can be invited and stuff. All about status.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
try to keep your enemies to a minimum and keep your friends to a maximum*Salas* said:
granted, the first couple of days you should focus on seating, then you worry about being on good terms with everyone, finding the group of people you want to hang out with, etc.
after all that, then you should check out the girls in your classes and go after a few.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Posture helped perceive value i think.ediceneet12 said:
Straight back, shoulders up, arms evenly apart, walking at a decent pace, head up, smile(not a big one just a small smile) and chest out. Basically how an Alpha would walk is how I walk. I also sit in a very open, relaxed manner.
Everywhere you walk, you own the place mentality. Anyone who looks at you(that's a girl) you should be able to notice them and look back at them until they look away. If they happen to hold their gaze saying "Hey" wouldn't hurt because that could either mean someone they know is in back of you or they're interested. (;
The: "You interact with people, not pick them up." mentality has helped me talk to people and speak up from which I normally would not do. It can be anything to answering a Teachers questions, someones random outburst, to simply saying Hello to someone next to you. I would recommend the "Art of Conversation" which is just simply branching out the information given to you.
I have actually approached random people in the spur of the moment using that mindset.
I wouldn't say "Don't give a f*ck" but I will say that when/if someone gives you trouble, just agree sarcastically and phrase it to look like you're the best. As if, you're better than that person. Because, well you are.
Don't be afraid to talk or speak up, creating friends also creates enemies. You can't have one and not the other.