"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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americandude

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There's been strikes this month here in France, so I have been driving to work instead of taking public transport. On my way back home tonight, there were 3 women that took the elevator with me to their cars. When the first woman got off, I wasn't sure if that was my floor because I was too busy checking out the youngest of the three, so I said "merde" and then said sorry or whatever. Anyway, me and the two other women get off on the next floor and their car is a little further away than mine. I get into my car and I notice that the young woman is checking me out. We work in the same building, so there's a possibility that I'll see her again. I don't think she saw the car seat in my backseat, but it got me thinking about whether or not I should be hiding it in my trunk when I don't have my son with me.

Also, on dating sites you can sometimes state whether or not you have children. It's a negative for a lot of women, so I was wondering how open other single guys with children are with revealing that bit of information. Of course, the subject should come up eventually, but I'm thinking maybe it's better to not advertise it in the beginning.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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derby1

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Im an addict, i dont tell people "i dont drink".........I just say "im not really interested in drinking today"

let the subject come when it comes, dont reveal it at first.......women are covert when it comes to feelings........most women have children and most women have alcoholism, their double standards kick in when its you as the aggressor though
 
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