"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For Day Game: How do you go direct in 2,3, or 4, etc.. set of women?

Deicide

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Hey everyone. While I was in a college town, I noticed a weakness in my game arsenal. And that is approaching women in 2,3, and 4 sets and getting closes out of it during the daytime. How do I go direct and let the group know who my target is in that scenario? Should I say something like "Hey. How're all of you doing? I think this girl here is attractive and I'd like to meet her, is that ok?" That's pretty much all I've thought of so far other than engaging the group themselves. This is during daygame, so I don't have time to mess around with indirect stuff most likely due to time constraints.
I saw a few attractive women today in these group sets, but I didn't approach due to fear of course(And this is coming from someone with little AA when it comes to 1-2 sets of women in places like grocery and retail stores). I imagine doing mixed sets in Day Game would be even harder, but there are always methods to ease things. Any advice is welcome.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ask a question. Women love to hear themselves talk about their own opinions.
 
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Try this out:

TO GROUP: ok this is gonna sound completely random, but I just noticed your friend and have to tell her something...

TO TARGET: I just saw you from over there/walking by and thought you look ___________(insert honest compliment) and had to meet you and see if your cool...

TO GROUP: You're all cute, but I'm just very attracted to (look at target realizing you don't know her name)...your friend....

TO TARGET: whats your name? blah blah blah (have a fun short conversation and wrap up with a FTC and a number close quickly)


I'm very interested in hearing what you think or any results you get with it...good luck man
 

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Sometimes I'll just start singing to them and have my focus on the girl I like...works pretty good. Even if you don't know the words.
 

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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll have to try out legendary's suggestion.
Haha cool yuppaz, you should sing Purple Rain. That's what I would sing if I knew how to sing correctly. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't use routines per se, but I do create them on the fly sometimes. I tried this with a two-set to great effect. It would probably work with a larger set. It's very cute. See below.

Mike: How's everybody doing? <Or whatever lame opener you use.>

Target Chick: Good.

Obstacle Chick: Ok.

Mike: I'm Mike. <Go to shake target's hand.>

Target Chick: I'm Jenny. <Cool, got the target's name.>

Obstacle Chick: I'm Kate. <Got the obstacle's name>

Mike: <Shake Kate's hand> <Puts arm around Jenny's (target) waist>

Mike: Nice to meet you Kate. Oh yeah, have I introduce you to my new girlfriend Jenny lol?

This is usually well received. But if the target is not receptive, you can neg her. "Yeah, we've been going out for a while, but I'm ready to break up with her lol."
 

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Haha, thanks Mike. I just tried out legendary's opener out on a lesbian apparently. lol

I was at a store and I saw a 2-set of women in their late 20s, early 30s. I said Hey, I know this is random, but I think your friend is attractive and I'd like to meet her. I think she's cute. Then the target girl said that the other girl is her girlfriend. I just internally freaked out and said So you don't like men and my voice cracked. lol And I ejected.

I don't know why I get so nervous and panicked during cold approaches for. I do them a lot, but the fear snd uncomfortability remains.
 
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