"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For Day Game: How do you go direct in 2,3, or 4, etc.. set of women?

Deicide

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Hey everyone. While I was in a college town, I noticed a weakness in my game arsenal. And that is approaching women in 2,3, and 4 sets and getting closes out of it during the daytime. How do I go direct and let the group know who my target is in that scenario? Should I say something like "Hey. How're all of you doing? I think this girl here is attractive and I'd like to meet her, is that ok?" That's pretty much all I've thought of so far other than engaging the group themselves. This is during daygame, so I don't have time to mess around with indirect stuff most likely due to time constraints.
I saw a few attractive women today in these group sets, but I didn't approach due to fear of course(And this is coming from someone with little AA when it comes to 1-2 sets of women in places like grocery and retail stores). I imagine doing mixed sets in Day Game would be even harder, but there are always methods to ease things. Any advice is welcome.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ask a question. Women love to hear themselves talk about their own opinions.
 
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Try this out:

TO GROUP: ok this is gonna sound completely random, but I just noticed your friend and have to tell her something...

TO TARGET: I just saw you from over there/walking by and thought you look ___________(insert honest compliment) and had to meet you and see if your cool...

TO GROUP: You're all cute, but I'm just very attracted to (look at target realizing you don't know her name)...your friend....

TO TARGET: whats your name? blah blah blah (have a fun short conversation and wrap up with a FTC and a number close quickly)


I'm very interested in hearing what you think or any results you get with it...good luck man
 

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Sometimes I'll just start singing to them and have my focus on the girl I like...works pretty good. Even if you don't know the words.
 

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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll have to try out legendary's suggestion.
Haha cool yuppaz, you should sing Purple Rain. That's what I would sing if I knew how to sing correctly. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't use routines per se, but I do create them on the fly sometimes. I tried this with a two-set to great effect. It would probably work with a larger set. It's very cute. See below.

Mike: How's everybody doing? <Or whatever lame opener you use.>

Target Chick: Good.

Obstacle Chick: Ok.

Mike: I'm Mike. <Go to shake target's hand.>

Target Chick: I'm Jenny. <Cool, got the target's name.>

Obstacle Chick: I'm Kate. <Got the obstacle's name>

Mike: <Shake Kate's hand> <Puts arm around Jenny's (target) waist>

Mike: Nice to meet you Kate. Oh yeah, have I introduce you to my new girlfriend Jenny lol?

This is usually well received. But if the target is not receptive, you can neg her. "Yeah, we've been going out for a while, but I'm ready to break up with her lol."
 

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Haha, thanks Mike. I just tried out legendary's opener out on a lesbian apparently. lol

I was at a store and I saw a 2-set of women in their late 20s, early 30s. I said Hey, I know this is random, but I think your friend is attractive and I'd like to meet her. I think she's cute. Then the target girl said that the other girl is her girlfriend. I just internally freaked out and said So you don't like men and my voice cracked. lol And I ejected.

I don't know why I get so nervous and panicked during cold approaches for. I do them a lot, but the fear snd uncomfortability remains.
 
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